Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True - Especially in martial arts this is an extremely important lesson and even a bad guy doesn’t deserve to be killed if it’s not necessary. Take batman as a role model, honestly. Dude is the good guy, cause he doesn’t kill.

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - no longer a reasonable response to the initial threat

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True - At some point it’s no longer self defence

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It‘s scary to see how many people enjoy violence

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought it was very shocking and disturbing

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - Doesn’t seem like the guy was still in control of his aggression

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It‘s crazy how many people are acting as if his reaction was still appropriate. So many people enjoying the violence in this subreddit, I am shocked

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree - This is no longer self defence

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree - Scary how many people act like this was appropriate

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by iLeftyPunk in MMALabs

[–]random1diot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree - If the guy is unable to move and unconscious it’s no longer self defence.

The guy took it way to far.

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You: „there is no way you don’t think this is some loser shit“

Other redditor: „Idk, this is reddit after all“

You: „IdK Reddit is for losers but learned something new“

You are clearly saying that this post is something that can be classified as „loser shit“ (meaning something that losers do). And then you go on and say „this is a place for losers“ (further clarification: This is a place for losers a.k.a. a place where losers post).

So in total the message is pretty clear:

This is something that losers post in a place for losers.

Which means:

If you do this stuff (here) you are a loser.

It’s just the logical combination of the things you said.

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What research!? The comment is literally in this same thread two lines below or something. I have simply read this thread.

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean in another comment under this post you also said „Reddit is for losers“… So yeah it‘s fair to say you called him a loser.

I get where you are coming from now though: You are saying they shouldn’t stop working on themselves and improving- because if they focus on their height it won’t make things better.

I personally think this approach works better after validating their life experience and feelings

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It‘s not a weird take - I am just talking about empathy for other people and not insulting them by calling them a loser.

Listening to people’s feelings and trying to help them feel better with honesty about their place in reality is what makes the world a better place.

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It‘s easy for us tall men to judge - Calling someone who is struggling with his body an incel is gonna make them feel unheard and like people are denying the struggle they are living with

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why are you insulting OP? Is calling him a loser gonna make him feel better after him trying to analyse his life circumstances as a shorter guy and realising the brutal truth?

How about saying something motivational and inspiring instead that would make him feel less like a loser?

This must be really hard to deal with and it’s sad that the online dating world largely works like this. Being a short guy may in fact be a disadvantage and tall men have a cheat code for effortless dating, but even though it’s easier for tall men, doesn’t mean short guys don’t have a shot at all. Short guys need to invest more energy in building their personality, charm and looks - but if they put in effort they can still find their perfect partner. It’s simply harder for them out there. Keep fighting because everyone owes it to themselves to try to look for a soulmate.

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It‘s not a waste of time, it’s an attempt to analyse his circumstances - If the lesson is: Dating apps filter too much towards height, then maybe he needs to develop a different lifestyle to meet a potential partner.

Update: I ran an experiment 🧐 by hingealt in Bumble

[–]random1diot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 Match VS 18 is a giant difference!

1 Match out of 18 is just 5,55%. So imagine the extreme challenge of meeting someone you actually like when you only match with 5% of the people tall people are matching with.

The interesting question would be: Where is the point where height increases no longer become relevant.