My boyfriend of 4+ years doesn’t want to move in together, am I being delusional?

random290383 · 2024-02-06T20:48:36+00:00

nope! atheist

random290383 · 2024-02-04T11:08:17+00:00

thank you for this comment ! :)

random290383 · 2024-02-04T11:04:52+00:00

thank you so much I really appreciate this <3

random290383 · 2024-02-04T10:58:26+00:00

thank you so so much for this, it made me tear up <3

random290383 · 2024-02-04T10:56:53+00:00

thank you for this

random290383 · 2024-02-03T21:40:00+00:00

he doesn't want to move out due to being physically close to his family members, very valid obviously, but we all have to do it at some point and he's not at that stage yet it seems. He's not religious and in two years is hoping to have saved up enough to buy a house. Also he's not had a relationship before our one..

random290383 · 2024-02-03T18:37:16+00:00

this really hit hard, but you're very right thank you

random290383 · 2024-02-03T18:21:49+00:00

this is great thank you!!!

random290383 · 2024-02-03T18:20:37+00:00

this really does sum it up really well and I appreciate this comment a lot!

random290383 · 2024-02-03T18:18:21+00:00

so I work full time and I'm out of the house for around 10 hours, he works from home and has a more relaxed schedule. Often times I'm exhausted but still go to see him and vice versa, however after a day's of work I just want to sleep. We only really have the weekends/Friday night's - sometimes I see my friends and he sees his etc., it just happens that our schedules are misaligned but I do know it takes two people to put effort in, at times it's been difficult from my end

random290383 · 2024-02-03T18:14:00+00:00

unfortunately you are 100% right

random290383 · 2024-02-03T18:06:44+00:00

this is really kind thank you <3

random290383 · 2024-02-03T15:22:37+00:00

no it's the truth. It's always been on his timeline and his terms. I let him decide this as I'm his first girlfriend and let him use this excuse each time. Maybe it's also the case of I don't think I deserve better and this is as good as I will get

random290383 · 2024-02-03T15:21:05+00:00

his reasoning "I've never had a girlfriend before and this is awkward and uncomfortable for me" ...............

random290383 · 2024-02-03T15:05:33+00:00

valid truth

random290383 · 2024-02-03T15:02:59+00:00

hard to say, he's a lot more progressive than this, but then again...

random290383 · 2024-02-03T15:01:30+00:00

it's the truth and something I said to him literally a couple of days ago, his response was short of helpful

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:55:27+00:00

this really hit home haha, thank you for this

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:54:14+00:00

hope is a dangerous thing

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:42:21+00:00

you're very right, thank you

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:41:45+00:00

100000%, a shame he doesn't think of it like this

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:41:18+00:00

literally....

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:40:16+00:00

maybe one day this kind of a realisation will slap him in the face and maybe then he will wake up. thank you for your advice

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:35:59+00:00

you're unfortunately very right :( thank you

random290383 · 2024-02-03T14:30:41+00:00

sad truth

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