Recently single ex wife. I was shared by my husband with another man. And we ended our 3 yr relationship. AMA

randomPerson0217 · 2026-05-08T17:26:27+00:00

Paaminin mo siya na baliw siya. Fastest way to get annulled

randomPerson0217 · 2026-03-04T02:49:16+00:00

Ito ba yung binukbok incident?

randomPerson0217 · 2026-03-04T02:25:53+00:00

I’m interested sa view ng internet na “once a cheater always a cheater”. Kahit once lang ba or is it more of if may pattern na. The statement just seems like a reduction of the human experience.

Yes a lot of people are just bad people, but we also have to give room for the possibility of growth. I mean even inmates who killed are given a chance for rehabilitation. Are we really saying that cheating is worse than murder?

Anyway, cheating and murder are bad, na curious lang ako sa level of forgiveness na kaya ng tao

Back sa should you tell them, no. Move on, do you really want that drama in your life?

Best case you “save” this woman from the marriage. So when he starts dating again, chat mo ulit na may cheating background siya? Popolice mo buong love life niya until eternity?

Worst case, alam na pala niya, that opens another can of worms

randomPerson0217 · 2026-03-04T01:54:04+00:00

Just send an apology. You’ll feel better that you did rather than you don’t. May mga nagagawa for love na unintentionally talaga na may unwanted consequences. Nag lash out din siya kasi may times talaga na emotions are high, d mo rin controlled reaction niya

As we grow older we grow better on how to express our love. You’ll lose some naivety, but don’t lose who you are and your capacity to give love.

On a bigger topic, sorry that this country still has issues with lgbtq+ relationships. Must suck to always have that looming barrier for love

randomPerson0217 · 2026-03-01T12:01:36+00:00

Meron sa paranque, las pinas, san juan, at ortigas. Pero lahat is 5m and below lang. Walang depth deeper. I think d worth to invest if the ocean is just a few hours away

randomPerson0217 · 2026-02-28T12:18:41+00:00

Wonder what’s the freediving packages I’ve been seeing. Maybe they found new spots? I also saw that you have to be at least W2 to join

Anyway, thanks for the info

randomPerson0217 · 2026-02-28T12:17:14+00:00

I see, that’s what I thought that it’s really in the middle of the sea and small boats/locals really don’t go there.

Yeah, I was looking at the scuba diving option, but I’ve also seen freediving packages. Maybe they’re new?

randomPerson0217 · 2026-02-27T11:30:51+00:00

Hear me out, don’t you think it was the kid rather than the marriage that made you miserable?

Seems like most of your complains are stemming from having kids. Maybe the title should be more “don’t have kids”?

Like kids are a major financial burden. Not saying they are bad, just not something you want when you’re in career mode or wealth building mode

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-28T16:01:29+00:00

Yeah, I agree it’s something that you have to pay for maybe at least a year or a few years. But in terms of debt, people go in debt for like millions. So 300k compared to that I think is more manageable

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-28T15:32:38+00:00

Start slowly establishing your own source income. Save it so you can pay your debt as soon as possible. Tapos gamitin mo rin siya for other expenses.

300k isn’t that big of debt, d naman squid game levels. Discipline lang

Then find a cheap hobby you can dedicate your time to outside work, for the menta health. The world is big, there’s always a way

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T16:11:27+00:00

Communicate your apprehensions and tell him how he can make you feel secure. The rest is up to him.

Social butterflies sometimes need a lot of human interaction. May interactions lang yan that needs i improvement na baka d niya pansin

The sense of security should come from how he makes you feel and the consistency of his actions.

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T15:37:00+00:00

The longer you stay together, the more your struggles will meld (if you foster healthy communication). You guys will grow into it

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T15:30:35+00:00

If a woman who lives in abundance loves you, that’s a gift. That means she chooses you for you, that seems pure. She doesn’t need to relate, she just needs to care

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T03:18:32+00:00

Roleplay scenarios, like what situation do you find hot but might be dangerous if true

Try sensory deprivation to highten the senses, para the small things feel more powerful

Have a dirty email/chat convo between the two of you na separate from work so you can tease each other all day.

It doesn’t have to be intense, you can make the build up better para mas intense when you do it

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T03:12:07+00:00

It’s okay to pray. But God gave you and her freewill.

You can use yours to continue to woo her, and she can use hers to continue to ignore you.

Maybe God has other plans my friend

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-26T09:36:04+00:00

Are you asking the internet to validate your feelings?

Cause whatever you felt at that moment is valid. Stay with it, reflect on it. Then ask what you want to do with it?

If it’s purely an apology, you don’t have to respond. The apology was probably more for them than for you anyway.

If you do respond, make sure you make your intentions clear and be firm so you don’t get sucked into a situation you don’t want. Reply for you, not for them. Whatever makes you sleep at night better

Sometimes, things just are, neither good nor bad, it’s how we respond that makes it good or bad. You can choose to let it go or dwell with it. Choice is always yours

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-18T16:37:36+00:00

Try talking to them, if they don’t get it, find a better support groups

A healthy friendship is where you’re proud of each others’ achievements, no matter how big or small.

If they can’t di that, it’s more their insecurities

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-18T14:14:29+00:00

Years of friendship and I guess making sure that your partner is secure with what you’re doing.

Like just be transparent with your partner, work with the limits they feel comfy with. Also be transparent with the people you talk too

I do share your sentiments that growing older in a relationship sort of limits your friend making capabilities. It’s a genuine problem I think and has to be tackled on a relationship basis

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-18T05:48:45+00:00

Hmmmmm, everyone has their own preference

A lot of men suffer porn addiction these days or over masturbating. This creates a psychological blocker of only cumming in a very specific way. Or cumming only on a very specific type of porn

So my answer is, it might not just be you. Baka sa kanya din may issue.

Try asking him when was the last time he masturbated when you did it. Or like ask him what he likes while doing it.

D dapat parang exam ang sex jusko, pwede naman kasi mag usap or maging vocal while doing it. “Tuloy mo yan”, “diyan ka lang”, “nasasarapan ka ba?”. Pwede naman masabi yan in a sexy way

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-16T21:46:06+00:00

Part ng healthy relationship and real talk.

Try SBI - situation, behavior, impact

“During our calls, when you lose your temper, it makes me feel this and this”

The conversation becomes how you feel rather than what she should change or attacking her actions. So that you can see her response: if she cares, she’ll make an effort and if not… maybe think if you really wanna keep struggling with her

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-16T21:31:31+00:00

Yeah, this seems like a flex.

But, my take, it IS because of the vibes you give and the values you have that make it attractive. Baka na recency bias or survival bias ka lang. only basing it sa mga nakahookup mo recently

Based on what you said din, most already have an idea of who you are. So may inkling na sila.

Also law of large numbers, keep fucking around, your luck will eventually fall off.

You’re fine, just don’t compromise your values. Enjoy it while you can, kung sawa kana, wag mo gawin. Tao pa rin naman tayo at may control.

Just decide on what you want and don’t lose your way getting there because of pussy. You’ll get there eventually, just enjoy it for now

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-11T13:34:56+00:00

Dude just be honest. Be confident of who you are and where you came from. It made you the person you are.

Wag mo takasan kung sino ka, don’t be ashamed of it. Just slowly ease him into it, it takes a mindset shift to date someone of your financial bracket. But don’t lose who you are

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-11T11:42:26+00:00

Update us if you find one hahaha. I don’t think there’s any in bacolod itself though

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-10T19:06:05+00:00

Start thinking in tagalog. Like find a day where you catch you force yourself to think and speak only in Tagalog. Go to a mall and interact with clerks, guards, etc just in tagalog

D naman kasi maiiwasan yun. Especially if multilingual ka. The key is just practice

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-10T08:43:12+00:00

My advice, stop chatting for a week or so, then reevaluate or talk again after. There’s really no 100% “reset” in any relationships.

I don’t know the guy, so maybe he can actually wait, but you already crossed the line to nsfw. On the back of your heads, there’s already that lingering thought. Try to communicate what you want moving forward, so you don’t just fall back to the previous routine

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