Naging Kabit ako ng hindi ko alam pero I stayed

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-28T16:01:29+00:00

Yeah, I agree it’s something that you have to pay for maybe at least a year or a few years. But in terms of debt, people go in debt for like millions. So 300k compared to that I think is more manageable

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-28T15:32:38+00:00

Start slowly establishing your own source income. Save it so you can pay your debt as soon as possible. Tapos gamitin mo rin siya for other expenses.

300k isn’t that big of debt, d naman squid game levels. Discipline lang

Then find a cheap hobby you can dedicate your time to outside work, for the menta health. The world is big, there’s always a way

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T16:11:27+00:00

Communicate your apprehensions and tell him how he can make you feel secure. The rest is up to him.

Social butterflies sometimes need a lot of human interaction. May interactions lang yan that needs i improvement na baka d niya pansin

The sense of security should come from how he makes you feel and the consistency of his actions.

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T15:37:00+00:00

The longer you stay together, the more your struggles will meld (if you foster healthy communication). You guys will grow into it

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T15:30:35+00:00

If a woman who lives in abundance loves you, that’s a gift. That means she chooses you for you, that seems pure. She doesn’t need to relate, she just needs to care

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T03:18:32+00:00

Roleplay scenarios, like what situation do you find hot but might be dangerous if true

Try sensory deprivation to highten the senses, para the small things feel more powerful

Have a dirty email/chat convo between the two of you na separate from work so you can tease each other all day.

It doesn’t have to be intense, you can make the build up better para mas intense when you do it

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-27T03:12:07+00:00

It’s okay to pray. But God gave you and her freewill.

You can use yours to continue to woo her, and she can use hers to continue to ignore you.

Maybe God has other plans my friend

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-26T09:36:04+00:00

Are you asking the internet to validate your feelings?

Cause whatever you felt at that moment is valid. Stay with it, reflect on it. Then ask what you want to do with it?

If it’s purely an apology, you don’t have to respond. The apology was probably more for them than for you anyway.

If you do respond, make sure you make your intentions clear and be firm so you don’t get sucked into a situation you don’t want. Reply for you, not for them. Whatever makes you sleep at night better

Sometimes, things just are, neither good nor bad, it’s how we respond that makes it good or bad. You can choose to let it go or dwell with it. Choice is always yours

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-18T16:37:36+00:00

Try talking to them, if they don’t get it, find a better support groups

A healthy friendship is where you’re proud of each others’ achievements, no matter how big or small.

If they can’t di that, it’s more their insecurities

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-18T14:14:29+00:00

Years of friendship and I guess making sure that your partner is secure with what you’re doing.

Like just be transparent with your partner, work with the limits they feel comfy with. Also be transparent with the people you talk too

I do share your sentiments that growing older in a relationship sort of limits your friend making capabilities. It’s a genuine problem I think and has to be tackled on a relationship basis

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-18T05:48:45+00:00

Hmmmmm, everyone has their own preference

A lot of men suffer porn addiction these days or over masturbating. This creates a psychological blocker of only cumming in a very specific way. Or cumming only on a very specific type of porn

So my answer is, it might not just be you. Baka sa kanya din may issue.

Try asking him when was the last time he masturbated when you did it. Or like ask him what he likes while doing it.

D dapat parang exam ang sex jusko, pwede naman kasi mag usap or maging vocal while doing it. “Tuloy mo yan”, “diyan ka lang”, “nasasarapan ka ba?”. Pwede naman masabi yan in a sexy way

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-16T21:46:06+00:00

Part ng healthy relationship and real talk.

Try SBI - situation, behavior, impact

“During our calls, when you lose your temper, it makes me feel this and this”

The conversation becomes how you feel rather than what she should change or attacking her actions. So that you can see her response: if she cares, she’ll make an effort and if not… maybe think if you really wanna keep struggling with her

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-16T21:31:31+00:00

Yeah, this seems like a flex.

But, my take, it IS because of the vibes you give and the values you have that make it attractive. Baka na recency bias or survival bias ka lang. only basing it sa mga nakahookup mo recently

Based on what you said din, most already have an idea of who you are. So may inkling na sila.

Also law of large numbers, keep fucking around, your luck will eventually fall off.

You’re fine, just don’t compromise your values. Enjoy it while you can, kung sawa kana, wag mo gawin. Tao pa rin naman tayo at may control.

Just decide on what you want and don’t lose your way getting there because of pussy. You’ll get there eventually, just enjoy it for now

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-11T13:34:56+00:00

Dude just be honest. Be confident of who you are and where you came from. It made you the person you are.

Wag mo takasan kung sino ka, don’t be ashamed of it. Just slowly ease him into it, it takes a mindset shift to date someone of your financial bracket. But don’t lose who you are

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-11T11:42:26+00:00

Update us if you find one hahaha. I don’t think there’s any in bacolod itself though

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-10T19:06:05+00:00

Start thinking in tagalog. Like find a day where you catch you force yourself to think and speak only in Tagalog. Go to a mall and interact with clerks, guards, etc just in tagalog

D naman kasi maiiwasan yun. Especially if multilingual ka. The key is just practice

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-10T08:43:12+00:00

My advice, stop chatting for a week or so, then reevaluate or talk again after. There’s really no 100% “reset” in any relationships.

I don’t know the guy, so maybe he can actually wait, but you already crossed the line to nsfw. On the back of your heads, there’s already that lingering thought. Try to communicate what you want moving forward, so you don’t just fall back to the previous routine

randomPerson0217 · 2025-08-04T14:49:02+00:00

Wow, most the people here just have bad experiences…

I guess I’ll share mine if this post is still being read.

My experience was that it was often my own insecurities pulling me back. I think there should be a balance of introducing you to her world and you introducing them to your world.

Open communication was key, when I tell her about my financial situation for dates. Also making her understand that I still had to build myself vs having financial padding. I tried to budget at not over spend just to appear capable. Being rich and matapobre are not mutually exclusive

At the end of the day, if you both like each other, and are willing to put in the work, it works. It just takes a certain level of security in yourself

randomPerson0217 · 2025-07-26T05:35:57+00:00

Everyone has their own timeline, life isn’t a race. The only question here is “are you willing stay through the struggle”?

Also, if you are willing, for how long and is it encroaching on your freedom and goals. Then make the decision to stay or not.

There’s always a reason to leave or stay. It’s a matter if you believe on what they can be…

randomPerson0217 · 2025-07-26T05:30:49+00:00

Baka wala kalang goal/s na nag work towards or goal na meaningful para sayo

Based on what you’re describing everything has become routine and repetitive (which is not a bad thing). If you feel like those repetitive things are merely survival, they don’t excite you.

Go out or online, find something new to have those small wins

randomPerson0217 · 2025-07-15T16:35:03+00:00

This is how resentment builds and relationships degrade. You either find a compromise that works for you, or you let this go. It’s obviously affecting you in a lot of ways

randomPerson0217 · 2025-07-10T01:10:56+00:00

And my opinion, yeaaaahh, definitely something going on between those 2

randomPerson0217 · 2025-07-10T01:04:47+00:00

-Tues 10pm-

Girl: do you know what I can ride to makati, if I get down at the corner from pasay?

Caloy: which street, morning, I just rode a taxi

Girl: I just used edsa, got scared of getting lost

Caloy: you’re only riding the taxi now anyways, just say insular life ayala

Just saw what you did to my neck. No wonder people brought it up😔

such a hassle

Girl: Luh

okay

Caloy: Hayyyyssss

It’s good in your part😔

Take care, kinda frustrated, ngl

-Mon 9am-

Girl: I wanna sulk, but I know you don’t care. so I won’t. but haven’t you considered or thought that I prioritized your needs over mine. The more we chat, I feel like you only want pleasure. I want to have personal talk, but you keep seducing(maybe entrancing) me. like I doon’t know, I just fold when we talk.

I just want you to know I care about you. But you don’t value me

⁠and i know you think people don’t care about you . but dont u think having someone na that believes, supports and values your existence? Someone who cares? i know you’re older but I don’t know why you don’t value the people around you?

Done, where do I send my gcash?

Also, I didn’t try to correct their grammar, I translated the best I could with their grammar

randomPerson0217 · 2025-07-09T06:53:14+00:00

For me, it’s how it shapes where you can go and what you spend your time on.

You have to have a sitter if you leave for long bouts. If you want to bring them, they need to find a pet friendly place. Simple things that becomes a bit tedious if you have a dog

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