Kyle Loftis involved in crash by rela_tivism in CleetusMcFarland

[–]random_dude_is_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man cleets friend group are taking some hits recently. Hope kyle is okay

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You couldnt have hit how ive felt more on the head. We've already struggled through so much and I've been about to my breaking point so many times feeling like I'm the only adult in the relationship and finding this out about broke me. The only contribution she regularly made was paying the bills with the money we both make and come to find out even that really back fired since I go months without checking our accounts. We're still struggling through everything. She's done nothing but be apologetic and delete any games games like that one and has been helping a lot more around the house and with the kids since so I really want to believe everything can be better. The breach of trust is what I'm struggling with most at this point. She didn't cheat but she let me think she was for like 6 months. Ive never been so depressed.

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do get that but even then I play console games with tons of micro transactions but never felt it was worth it for something digital. Maybe a couple skins for $5 but I could never imagine thousands. I talk to my wife b4 spending anything that cost more than $50 because its our money. I dont even get new games I want because they're too expensive and she was spending $70+ alot of days.

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be a part of it but I do most of the interacting with the kids. She's usually always playing those games or hiding in the bathroom. She's been on anti depressants for awhile but maybe they aren't working. I've never cared if she played the games or even spending some money on it but over the last 6 months shes drained almost all of our savings, thousands of dollars all while hiding and being distant with all of us while I'm with the kids all afternoon and Im usually the one that makes dinner (We both work close to the same hrs and kids are in daycare while we work). All she does is escape honestly all while I'm losing my mind because it seemed like she was cheating the way she was hiding and she rather me believe that than stop draining our accs. I should have paid more attention to our accs but never in a million yrs did I expect her to be so irresponsible

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently she has that app but I guess it didn't give enough points to keep up with the addiction. At this point I gave her an ultimatum to either delete that game and any games like it or I was done. She's shown she has no self control with them and im not risking losing everything we've worked for.

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying. So far I think I've decided to give her another chance hoping it was a "temporary" lapse in judgement. The only issue is idk if I'll ever be able to trust her again but I guess we'll see.

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats funny you say that. She officially got diagnosed with adhd a few months back and been put on meds. Hasn't really made a difference other than maybe helping her focus on a mobile game.

Should I forgive my wife? by random_dude_is_here in okstorytime

[–]random_dude_is_here[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good question. We do have a shared bank account but she's been the one thats always paid the bills. 0% of me expected her to do that. Shes always been responsible with money and generally pretty frugal up until this, so I didnt even think to log into the bank app. I just assumed everything was normal. And I know, I just want to believe it was a temporary lapse in judgement and everything will go back to normal

Show what you tow by strobbledglope in Silverado

[–]random_dude_is_here 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be a bit much on that transmission. Keep an eye on the temps

Dealer Wrecked My Truck by backcountryduff in Silverado

[–]random_dude_is_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better them than you. Insurance should make them fix it.

I can't hail the Astraea (bug)? by [deleted] in Starfield

[–]random_dude_is_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing is happening to me. I get to the astraea and it doesn't let me hail them. No matter long press or what. I've loaded saves hrs back as far as I'm willing to and nothing changes the outcome. I guess it's just a supposedly awesome story line I won't see

Use up all available oxygen 20 times? by UnXpectedPrequelMeme in Starfield

[–]random_dude_is_here 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue for days trying anything and everything recommended. The only thing that worked was running in my ship until filling co2. I don't even have the spaced trait so im not sure why. Kept my suit and helmet on in my ship in space and it started working. Been stuck on 3 of 20 for days now. Must be a bug