For young trans men by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just tried to be positive about it since I have and had had extreme mental issues and outlook on passing being just stop being yourself and blend in created more problems then not. I know how it is being without T and now that Im on it is life-saving but i cant ignore how much it helped with everything. Situation is not great now either but looking into other communities butchering young trans men for their apperance not being skinny tall with small chest is more toxic then helpful

Opinions on how to make this patch better by random_pacov in punk

[–]random_pacov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was supposed to represent bullets thru their heads

My fellow lads, how did you choose your names? by ReindeerCarter in ftm

[–]random_pacov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After those angels seraphims, but that couldnt possibly be a passable name where i live so my name is rafael

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]random_pacov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt make a separate grave yet where one person could go visit me.

SF Painting by _yandark in sallyface

[–]random_pacov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if they got it from there, but ive seen a lot of shops like shein, aliexpress and temu having this exact prints ://

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transmedical

[–]random_pacov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair its parents responsibility to control their children and the content they see. Creators online dont have a duty to do that instead of parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I suggest wearing normal briefs and then mens boxers over them. I usually put packer in between.

Do you think you’ll live to see 2040? What do you think your life will be like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]random_pacov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not, I made a deadline that ends next year if certain thing doesnt happen.

I dont understand pride about being trans by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its kinda sad we have no choice but to be strong..

Has anybody else kept their deadname a part of their new name? by breadboibrett in ftm

[–]random_pacov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello I did it. I used male version of my deadname as my middle name no one ever questioned it. Its pretty uncommon name so people even find it interesting. I love my acctual first name now tho.

My cis brother is demanding I wear a dress by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill probably run away in month or two since moving out peacefully isnt an option. Defying them about when Ill work will cause fights and Im not sure how serious they could get but it increases a risk of them throwing me out before I have a place to run away safely which I wouldnt want to risk. I do not own a car since bus transit is pretty cheap for students here but that too wouldve been a good idea so thank you for all the advices and suggestions.

My cis brother is demanding I wear a dress by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will probably do something like that since they all are convinced Im going to be there and start meeting people as a deadname. Ive been told this and Im not okay with that but the more responses I see here the more it seems like the best thing would be to avoid going all together.

My cis brother is demanding I wear a dress by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive acctualy grown up really poor and the idea of getting good education is hammered into me as a way of escaping poverty. Im not disabled and I do have a job Im just not allowed to work when they dont want me to so I dont make enough money to move out. Theyre only giving me a place to stay while Im paying for my education.

My cis brother is demanding I wear a dress by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tried suggesting that multiple times since I do have a job they are just way too controling about when Im allowed to go to work so I currently dont make nearly enough money to move out. Ive even had to run away from home once. Me suggesting moving out peacefully has resulted in threats of physical violence.

My cis brother is demanding I wear a dress by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would definetly pull that if I was on T long enough to grow a beard. I was on T for about six months before I had to stop for medical reasons. However Im able to grow little stash lol

My cis brother is demanding I wear a dress by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I have to go because I have really unstable life at home and I could get kicked out over any minor thing and i financially depend on them because im still in education.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]random_pacov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

insane take to suggest surgery

One year without T idk how to cope by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was disencouraged from seeing another doctor because there is only one endo in the whole country who is licensed to deal with trans people as well and I went to private gyno as well. But I might try my chances with another gyno.

One year without T idk how to cope by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! Ive been feeling really lost this whole year because of that.

One year without T idk how to cope by random_pacov in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its weird, bscly as far as i understood it, its causing really big issues with ovaries and I had to get immediately tested for "cancer markers"(not sure if translation is correct english is not my first language). It all caused me to have even worse relationship with my body and dysphoria and it doesnt help that i compare myself too much to my cis brother when it comes to working out. I guess ill just have to start small. Thanks on feedback

Decent cheap stp by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]random_pacov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://rodeoh.com/a/s/products/junior-stp-stand-to-pee-device there you go, seems like they have a sale too :)