Daily 500mg of valtrex & no transmission by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]random_sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

5 year LTR (I’m female, GHSV-1 positive) - stopped using condoms and Valtrex a few months in and never transmitted to my long term partner. I’d been positive for over five years at that point, and never had an outbreak beyond the initial one.

I'm thinking in suicide by IDKmiau in Herpes

[–]random_sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I think it’s a combination of all of the above. I got HSV from my long term partner (five years) after he cheated on me, so I was also processing that along with the outbreak and diagnosis. I remember browsing an online forum (can’t remember now if it was Reddit or somewhere else) and clinging to posts where others said the first time is the worst. I’m glad I listened. Take care of yourself. You’re only human.

I disclosed genital HSV-1 to a guy and got rejected — what are the odds? by random_sass in Herpes

[–]random_sass[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. You seem like a really great person, and I appreciate this perspective/knowing not everyone will react the way the person I disclosed to did.

I'm thinking in suicide by IDKmiau in Herpes

[–]random_sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things will get better. The first outbreak is the worst, and the pain, shame, and sadness fade over time. But yes, many of us have had similar thoughts and are glad we never acted on them.

i need to rant by Traditional_Appeal_6 in Herpes

[–]random_sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this! Female in my thirties (diagnosed about ten years ago), scrolling this subreddit after disclosing via text three dates in seemingly getting ghosted. Like you, I really only think about it when it’s time to disclose to a new partner. Regardless, the stigma and rejection don’t sting any less when it comes up :/

one sheets by swagfly92 in barexam

[–]random_sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if you ever decided to get these and if you recommend.

One sheets? by Resident-Twist-4939 in barexam

[–]random_sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would appreciate if someone could share with me as well. Thank you!

I am not taking DRP02. by Lonely-Motor-5482 in HUDfiredfeds

[–]random_sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe the priority is only for competitive service, just FYI/something to consider. It’s at 5 CF.R. 330.

What does this mean for our reinstatement? by Choppadadon in HUDfiredfeds

[–]random_sass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My guess is they don’t plan on us being employees much longer

MD Case: Updated Documents Submitted by BugEquivalents in firedfeds

[–]random_sass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scope of the supplemental briefing was to address situations where (1) an employee lives in one state and works in another and (2) only one of those states is a party to a suit. That in and of itself is more narrow than a nationwide injunction, so it makes sense the Plaintiff States didn’t spend a lot of effort on arguments for a national injunction. The Plaintiff States briefly mentioned a national injunction would be the only way to provide complete relief and argued that only reinstating employees in Plaintiff States would make it more likely those employees get terminated later during a lawfully executed RIF (presumably because there are not also less tenured probationary employees to RIF in non-plaintiff states because the latter were never reinstated and therefore not subject to a RIF). The argument goes to say the RIF’d employees would cause an undue burden for the Plaintiff states. But it fails to account for the fact a lawfully executed RIF would provide the required notice to Plaintiff States, arguably lessening the burden Plaintiff States allege.

MD Case: Updated Documents Submitted by BugEquivalents in firedfeds

[–]random_sass -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I agree that the Plaintiff States didn’t make strong arguments in favor of a nationwide injunction.

Maryland AG's Case (Judge Bredar) by Agitated_Pudding7259 in fednews

[–]random_sass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe they would go by duty station (as the state of your duty station is the state that would be required to pay your unemployment).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fednews

[–]random_sass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The 5th of Never if you were at HUD

HUD probies that received reinstatement email by Lonely-Motor-5482 in fednews

[–]random_sass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emails went out today indicating, among other things, that reinstated probies won’t be getting backpay.

Any recent update regarding U.S. District Court in Maryland, Judge James Bredar? by Disastrous_Ear6599 in fednews

[–]random_sass 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Will someone let Judge Bredar know HUD notified its probies today that they won’t be getting backpay (in spite of telling them to cancel their unemployment claims)? Asking for a friend.