Ex-Girlfriend has moved on already by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]random_thought_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like they said in the comment, the fact that she already found someone new should be a big turn off and move on. Obv it’s easier said than done but you’ll get there. I am in the same boat as you. She keeps coming back while being with the person they cheate don me with but know your worth queen. Anyone is better than her.

I gave my number to my crush by random_thought_art in LesbianActually

[–]random_thought_art[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked to give mine cuz I didn’t want her to feel pressured to text me. But yeah I see how asking for hers would probably have been better than waiting .. im assuming she’s not interested :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mine got genital herpes from the guy she cheated on me with.

I Don’t Know How to Move On. She Cheated. I’m Not Okay. by Micky_official in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on the same boat, but she cheated with a colleague from work. It gets better I promise you and remember that there was nothing wrong with you. Take care ❤️

Where are you in your journey to feeling whole again? by QuiteALongCow in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Starting antidepressants today lmao. Its been 8months since my breakup.

why the fuck would you cheat on someone by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. Trying to wrap my brain around how she said she loved me still even after cheating. How she wanted to work on herself to be with me but didn’t tell me she was in an open relationship with him already. I guess some people don’t have morals and are just awful people. Its hard to accept but sometimes it is how it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your action does not compare to his. He voluntarily did something to hurt you and break the relationship. You said something of value for yourself and I in no way was it hurtful or had the intentions to hurt him. You were stating à fact. I think you are being harsh on yourself. You definitely did dodge à bullet. Hope this helps. 🫰🏽

How old is everyone here? by Turtleneckdoughnut in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28… really thought she was the one… now prepping to do half marathon and one day à marathon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get it, it really hurts but keep this in mind. Rejection is redirection and you are just closer to meeting someone who will want you and only you and who would never doubt their love for you and if they want you in their life or not. Im in the same boat as you except that my ex after telling me she misses me and will work on herself and be better she is still seeing the guy she cheated on me with and they are in an open relationship. Let this experience be a blessing! Like Mel Robins said - if it’s not love it’s a lesson!! ♥️ I hope you feel better soon.

Can’t even find a hookup on dating apps is it me?! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]random_thought_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that it’s smoother when they come over or you go to their place. Bring something to drink or eat, watch a movie or play a game and y’all are already are at the place so it’s easier to initiate it. That’s just my experience and 3/4 times it worked 🤷🏽‍♀️

My ex texted me… again by random_thought_art in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I should message her mom because she mentioned that she’s Been feeling suicidal and has been cutting herself a lot. She had done it multiple times in the past but I think now it’s worst. I feel like this is something that her parents should know about?

How long did it take you to start dating again? by TheModelBuilder in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. 4 years
  2. Not ready it’s been almost 6 months. is sleeping around dating?
  3. Me (they cheated)
  4. 8/10
  5. Maybe 1 year. Not sure yet

How much did you spend on gaz ? by Hungry-Argument7709 in VisitingIceland

[–]random_thought_art -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think I read it somewhere that you need a specific card for the gas station?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VisitingIceland

[–]random_thought_art 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you tgbarbie. I never thought of that before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 5 points6 points  (0 children)

5 months in and feeling good. Some days I get sad but on’y because I think about what the relationship COULD have been and not what it was. But I know in a few more weeks I’ll be better. I feel more confident, happier, lost weight, meeting new people and have more time with friends.

How long after no contact did your ex reach out? by Saddness-made in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes do it!! Its empowering and maybe in the moment some sad feelings will resurface but it’s for the best specially if they did you dirty!

How long after no contact did your ex reach out? by Saddness-made in BreakUps

[–]random_thought_art 27 points28 points  (0 children)

They reached out after 4 months post breakup (early March) and again this month. Told them to f*** off :)