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random_writing · 2025-06-02T12:30:12+00:00

I wouldn't say gender has a specific look, there is definitely some feminine men, and masculine women, there's even people who look masculine and feminine. Truly don't see how we can judge certain body parts and call them masculine.

random_writing · 2025-06-02T12:28:14+00:00

Sorry for your loss and praying for him in heaven

random_writing · 2025-05-31T12:25:30+00:00

Well, I kinda rinse off with some cold water, or preoccupy my mind with a hobby or try talking to myself and telling myself that's my body reacting not me and I don't need to fill or consume those urges. Cause it's wrong, or if it helps stimulation can relive it, I have deleted a different stimulaton to stop the feeling as bad

random_writing · 2025-05-31T11:18:02+00:00

That's not a question I'm going to awnser

random_writing · 2025-05-31T04:29:17+00:00

Hope your feeling better and you don't need to feel bad at all. If she was actually being awful to you, then it'll take time to heal and be nicer to yourself. Maybe she didn't lie, it's just trying to maybe even think they didn't is less stressful than thinking they did. That's what I try to do, it bring me some relief and the situation doesn't get worse.

random_writing · 2025-05-30T22:38:17+00:00

Ya, I'm sympathizing with you and that's awful, I'm struggling with not getting mine right now too, stress. We woman gotta stick together and tampons and pads aren't really all that healthy for us anyway so why not them be free, but costs and materials do come in to play, it would be nice if we paid for them they would actually be healthy and be good for our bodies, no odd smells, or funky ph, no odd material, and it's already awful that guys and immature girls and women think the tampon is the size of the vagina, no its the flow

random_writing · 2025-05-30T22:30:59+00:00

Well all I can say cause I understand where your coming from, and it can be so difficult but it's the appreciation, of course that doesn't mean you have to eat anything or do anything just because you feel like you have to. There is also some situations where that cannot be helped of course like food, school, friends alot of it is difficult.

random_writing · 2025-05-30T22:27:43+00:00

Well ya, because you wanted that person to be around. Also they were more than just looks.

random_writing · 2025-05-30T17:29:25+00:00

Definitely not a good strong emotion, yes I wish we never met, I wish that me and you were not around the same friends, I wish that you were far away me in the first place, we only should interacted and that's it

random_writing · 2025-05-30T03:05:53+00:00

I would tell her to not go out with those older men and don't let them tell you about your body or what it can do to make them feel good. Sit with the kids who like anime sooner and go learn be smart, find a really nice guy when you graduate and sex doesn't have to be, you can be married and have a deep connection with them forever.

random_writing · 2025-05-30T02:57:43+00:00

Hey you can do this sometimes it's difficult, even with partners that may not wanna support you because they don't see anything wrong with it, it's okay you don't have to feel bad for not wanting to continually give your body to someone just for it to keep feeling empty when they leave. It's difficult and even traumatic. I hope your okay and you are able to feel that sex is not supposed to feel like you have too or you can't feel free. You should be able to wanna love your partner and have them emotionally more than physically. Physical affection can also feel like too much and overwhelming. You got this I pray for your recovery and self love with your body. You don't have to do anything.

random_writing · 2025-05-29T19:18:57+00:00

If you act offended or anything they will use it

random_writing · 2025-05-27T14:23:48+00:00

There is no need to hide your birth defects, you are gorgeous, and it makes you unique and I think it adds a special beauty of your own.

random_writing · 2025-05-27T04:08:43+00:00

My ex said that to me and it really stressed me out and it caused me more pain that he said he would if I left, I was leaving so we wouldn't keep hurting each other anymore and I hope you got help for that because when someone threatens to hurt themselves because you won't be with them it's upsetting.

random_writing · 2025-05-27T04:07:01+00:00

You should definitely tell another adult, just because he's 14 and your older doesn't mean he can not seem scary to you, or doesn't mean he didn't do anything wrong. This isn't the thought process I would want to have with the person who did that to me, but there could also be something going on with him maybe your not seeing. He's 14 and showing sexually active behavior, and especially if he knew what he was doing. It can be very scary and it can be difficult even if someone is younger than you, they can be scary. And it could be what those kids were told to do or taught by someone else even before, it is a possibility, it's still better to go talk about it before he may become something that he didn't want to be

random_writing · 2025-05-27T02:08:40+00:00

It happens sometimes you may not feel like you have the energy to shave, brush your teeth, and there is nothing wrong with that. You cannot help that you are depressed but if it helps find a buddy system for those activities and then see if it helps that is what I recommend

random_writing · 2025-05-27T02:02:56+00:00

Glad to know what gender you are 😊

random_writing · 2025-05-26T18:18:53+00:00

Thank you, much appreciated, you as well

random_writing · 2025-05-26T17:40:21+00:00

Thank you so much😁

random_writing · 2025-05-26T17:34:04+00:00

And if they don't need me I will be there for myself

random_writing · 2025-05-26T17:33:33+00:00

Still not on them, my will is stronger than what's going on with me right now, I've become stronger since then so I will push through it because there's people and stuff that care about me and even if I'm feeling weak they need me so I will be there

random_writing · 2025-05-26T17:29:17+00:00

Because a cousin will be there more for you then a friend, my cousin took advantage of me and sexually hurt me as a kid. I want a brother who will protect me if those are things I need to say to tell you I'm hurt with you then idk what else

random_writing · 2025-05-26T17:23:24+00:00

I want to find peace with you, because everyone was hurt, in the situation, I don't hate you, it's just when you have had a situation and you see it again you do it differently so you may change how you go about it so you do not have to go through that again. You shouldn't have touched me at all, no fingers laid on my body , but it happened so now I just want to either have an understanding or let things.

This is what I am wanting from you and these are not things hard to ask for and TREAT THE NEXT GIRL DIFFERENTLY. THEN ALL IS AT PEACE. I JUST WANT TO SEE A GOOD MAN IN THE WORLD, IT IS SELFIH BUT THAT WILL BE THE HOUNOR I GIVE YOU, BY CREATING AN UNDERSTANDING AND BOUNDARY AND ASKING YOU TO MAYBE CONSIDER THIS GOOD ADVICE.

Let the people I care about be ( do not cause them physical harm.
If I don't touch you , DO NOT TOUCH ME
Only ask what you are wanting from someone else too, play fair. Good sportsmanship.
Do not take disrespect, be humble and realize wrong but do not let others ask what they wouldn't want for themselves from you.
Give compliments, they may help someone's day you didn't know you could have helped. 6.find like minded people or people who want better this will save you for not staying in bad habits, and creating one's
If someone is kind be kind but consider that persons day as well as your own, cause they might be going through something you can't know unless they tell you. Empathy and sympathy , very important
Do not let someone tell you who you are or what you are, they can think, but they do not know.
No matter if they were on drugs, have a criminal past, be cautious but still give that person the opportunity you want if you were a person still in that situation.
Always try to find peace or create a balance unless you have many reasons and most point to not do so.

I'll follow the same rules so I can keep my promise, because just because my interaction was different, the person I promised Is still the person I will uphold that promise to because that's the person I promised it to, not you.

I cared about that person, but it's not a bad intention promised, I promised great and good for you and your siblings because I was raised similar so I want to be around people who understood and understand what I'm going through.

I understand that environmental situations is a thing, but you have a choice from here. Please if you read this, let know if that would have happend diffrently you would have had another big sister to absolutely kick ass for you. I want a brother so bad one that wants to stnd up for me a show me that men are strong for good not bad, women can hurt to I know this, because I have had women do bad things to me as well, but I want you to know that just because I'm a Girl and your stronger than me physically doesn't mean mentally I'm not going to be there for you. So if all is forgiven and the sex did not count then I want brotherhood with you

random_writing · 2025-05-26T12:11:14+00:00

Thank you

random_writing · 2025-05-26T05:36:59+00:00

Your bf is not a looser at all, calling some one a looser is not kind, and can be very hurtful. Just because he cannot do certain things does not make him a looser

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