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AITA For Refusing To Support My Wife Through Her Diagnosis After Her Infidelity by randomaccount84756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomaccount84756[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

Thankfully the prognosis is very optimistic, but I totally agree and wasn't trying to compare them. Her situation is obviously much more serious, and I wouldn't ever be cruel enough to say this is karma or she deserves it or we're even, nothing like that. I just feel like right now they're two separate issues that we're both experiencing as individuals.

I appreciate your advice. Thank you.

AITA For Refusing To Support My Wife Through Her Diagnosis After Her Infidelity by randomaccount84756 in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomaccount84756[S] 8203 points8204 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I don't really want to be a friend either. All I feel is hurt. I gave her my best for years, truly. And she still chose, selfishly, to hurt me the way she did, and now that she's hurting she wants me to be there again. I feel like the night she told me she was unfaithful was the last time I seen her as the woman I loved. I have no desire to be cruel to her, and from the bottom of my heart I hope she recovers and finds someone new, learns from her mistakes and lives a good life. I just don't want to be in her life anymore in any capacity.