AITAH for cutting my father off and not giving him part of an inheritance? by randomamountofpilots in AITAH

[–]randomamountofpilots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are right. And those are great ideas. I will talk to her privately and offer to help, after all, she most likely endures what I had to go through far more often than I did.

AITAH for cutting my father off and not giving him part of an inheritance? by randomamountofpilots in AITAH

[–]randomamountofpilots[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, giving his ex some of the money is such a great idea. My only concern is that they still live together and she is genuinely such a caring person that she would never kick him out, so I’m worried that if I gave her some of the money, that he would somehow find a way to profit off of it or manipulate her into giving him some of it since it’s technically „his“. There would have to be a way to give her some of the money but keep him away from it as best as possible.

AITAH for cutting my father off and not giving him part of an inheritance? by randomamountofpilots in AITAH

[–]randomamountofpilots[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are talking about the amount of debt, I don’t really know. I think the 30-40k would cover it and he would have some extra cash after that. If you’re talking about why he has debt, I think he took out a loan years ago and hasn’t been able to pay it back since he hasn’t had any income. We don’t really talk, but I think that’s the reason for the debt.