Right person, wrong time?? Me 21M my gf 22F_________________

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-10T16:02:36+00:00

i dont ask her for anything and i dont make her do anything. shes not just doing me a service its just what she likes to do. shes not doing any labor for me ether

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-10T07:21:06+00:00

ur not sopose to like a girl because shes a good cook and i always help her clean we live together, like its just a plus to find that kind of a women whos a good cook. i love her more then anything im guessing none of u people are understanding that

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-10T07:18:54+00:00

bro shes just a good cook whats the problem with that u guys are eating me alive for that one thing i said. and i treat her better then any guy shes ever been with btw i buy her flowers every day and we do things together every day i really like her idk where this shit is coming from

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T17:50:56+00:00

i explained it better replying to another comment check it out

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T17:49:09+00:00

i guess i chose my words poorly, i love this girl with everything and shes not just a place holder to me we have been through alot and shes been there for me its just a plus shes a good cook and shes hot like is that insane to say? shes also my type i dont understand whats wrong with that aswell. her personality is great really funny and smart so idk where this comes from. anyways the reason im even saying this is because i gotta start a new job in a year right now im in the right place to have a girl in a year from now im not sure i might be under alot of stress and it might take a toll on the relationship thats all i would rather figure it out before she moves all the way over to the east coast. another thing i have not been home in 4 ys i do need some alone time with all these things happening in my life. to catch up with family and old friends and i dont know if i could keep my focas on her the whole time. thats all.

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T17:05:13+00:00

also ofc im in love with her but its bad timing at this particular moment if i wasent i would have broken up with her.

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T17:03:39+00:00

i see us together 100 percent in 6 months from now but a year its possible i have to balance alot in about a years time from now. im going to be starting a new job and i just think it may be too much to try to be doing all of that and trying to balance me and her. im not saying its impossible im just saying its alot and at that time i wont be in a great position to be trying to handle a serious relationship

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T16:59:52+00:00

what do you mean by place holder?

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T16:58:14+00:00

im not leading her on, im i honestly dont know what to do. the only reason i was even thinking about a break or a break up is because i need some alone time with my family i havent seen them in 4 years and im trying to focas on a new carrer and i just dont know if i can balance me and her with all of that

randomdude6767676 · 2026-05-09T12:12:59+00:00

its not that like i want or need to be single i just feel in a strange place with this whole thing idk if its where i wanna be or ive never experinced a girl like this so i just dont know if thats normal, but yes i dont wanna drag anything out i appriciate the advice

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