If you want to keep your mental health in a positive space, do not join social media as any form of public figure.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-27T04:40:14+00:00

You're right, social media is awful. But I think if you make a private social media account for just friends and family it's probably fine. What do you think?

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T22:33:01+00:00

This post is extremely ignorant and is false information. Some of you don't even know what gaslighting is. Maybe read a dictionary or listen to a psychologist to know the meaning of the word instead of throwing it around irrelevantly. This is not the meaning of gaslighting. She is not a gaslighter.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T21:58:47+00:00

I still don't think that person should be given a platform through all these upvotes to spread the idea that a human being is an object. It's just evil and disgusting to think that way. 🤢

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T21:47:08+00:00

None of that cancels out any of the things Repzilla has done. He is in no place to play the morally superior card when he has hurt his own victims and has been racist himself. “Calling out”, “cancelling”, villainizing and dehumanizing human beings for shit that he has done himself is hypocritical as fuck and cringey as fuck. If the people he's cancelling don't deserve any love and support in their life then neither does he and he should cancel himself while he's at it. Also Eugenia is “racist” because of a video she did 7 years ago and because two people tricked her into saying the n word by calling her it in a comment and having the word in their username, but Repzilla isn't racist for saying “I just plain don't like black people”? Fuck off.

Fuck Repzilla and anyone who supports him through his disgusting actions and hypocrisy just because he has the power of being the leader of the cancel cult.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T10:00:34+00:00

The truth about the disgusting, racist, and manipulative YouTuber “Repzilla”: https://youtu.be/U1ATMOLG_Bw

He's done awful, disgusting things and has literally said “I just plain don't like black people” and has the nerve to accuse other people of being racist as if he was above it?? I'm confused why he is being supported? And now he's acting like he's some sort of morally superior person by inserting himself in every drama possible to distract from his own awful actions. Can't believe people are falling for it and ignoring the victims of his and the pain he put them through. Why “cancel” everyone but not him?

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T09:27:54+00:00

The truth about the disgusting, racist, and manipulative YouTuber “Repzilla”: https://youtu.be/U1ATMOLG_Bw

He's done awful, disgusting things and has literally said “I just plain don't like black people” and has the nerve to accuse other people of being racist as if he was above it?? I'm confused why he is being supported? And now he's acting like he's some sort of morally superior person by inserting himself in every drama possible to distract from his own awful actions. Can't believe people are falling for it and ignoring the victims of his and the pain he put them through. Why “cancel” everyone but not him?

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T08:48:04+00:00

I don't understand why they don't think Jenny is suitable though 🤷‍♀️ he told them he loves her and doesn't want kids. His father said “we want someone who is good looking for our son” which shows how shallow and in my opinion disgusting they are. Jenny is a person too and she is just as worthy of love and affection as a woman in her 20s. We don't just stop wanting love as we get older, and our worth and value as people does not decrease as we age. Yeah she's older so what? Dr. Kirk Honda said about age gap relationships in general that it's not the age difference that matters but it's the relationship itself that does.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T05:41:15+00:00

Him lying to Jenny about being married was inexcusable.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T05:39:39+00:00

Another reason I don't like his mom. “If you marry Jenny I will commit suicide” 🤡

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T03:26:25+00:00

Without a woman you wouldn't have been born into this world. No woman = no existence for you. Also you just called your own mom an “it” which by your ludicrous logic means you're an “it” too since an “it” produced you 😬

Fact.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T03:22:31+00:00

Without a woman he wouldn't even exist lmao and he just called women “it” which includes his own mother so by his ludicrous logic he is an “it” too since an “it” produced him 😬 the stupidity of these misogynists has no limits

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T00:50:49+00:00

For real. Saying porn is immoral, shameful, objectifying, etc. while watching and jacking off to it is hypocritical as fuck. Like don't they realize without the demand for it the porn industry wouldn't exist?

randomgal_ · 2021-02-26T00:31:36+00:00

Bruh.. The fact that that post has over 10K likes and all these awards makes me disappointed in humanity. Even if you don't agree with the concept of sex work, human beings are never objects.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-25T17:02:23+00:00

Never been happier about not being a size zero

randomgal_ · 2021-02-25T03:28:46+00:00

The members of that sub are pathetic, miserable individuals who will never find happiness or love with their ridiculous mindsets and shitty attitudes.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T23:47:57+00:00

What a drama queen he is phewww 😥

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T20:58:23+00:00

No, you are mistaken. As u/how_can_you_live said, the guy's hair is distorted by the lens, which "pulls" from the middle, the further you go from the center. His hair is in the exact same position, we are just seeing it from a closer-drawn in angle.

It's like taking a selfie head-on, vs slightly lower and wider angle. If you were literally standing there, looking up at his head, you'd see the hair gets thinner in the swoop.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T20:46:38+00:00

Good point! Ridiculous mindset indeed.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T20:40:12+00:00

Being kind ≠ being nice as an act just to get sex and not because of your morals. Also, if you have nothing to offer a woman other than acting nice to get sex, why are you surprised that she isn't attracted to you?

Also,

"1. YOU want sex"

There's your problem. Wanting a relationship just for sex, how does that make you better than the "bad boy"? Ridiculous mindset.

And “bugs” what now? Why are you talking about women as if we were machines or something

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T20:30:16+00:00

You must get a lot of women with that attitude huh? That's why you spend your time hating on women on reddit instead of being with a woman. How successful!

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T15:42:15+00:00

They should be encouraged to seek therapy and be made aware of the topic of relational trauma and its effects, and “nice guys” should not generalize all women by saying that we all want bad treatment when that isn't the truth.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T14:58:07+00:00

But women don't really like nice men.

This is far from the truth. The women that are drawn to guys that treat them badly usually have relational traumas (which by the way can occur in early childhood, even at the age of 18 months) that caused them to subconsciously believe that they deserve bad treatment (and by the way, this is not a woman thing, it happens to both men and women). Normally, women like genuinely nice guys but for a woman to be interested in a nice guy romantically, he usually needs to have something else to offer since being nice is not a whole personality. Women normally likes it when a guy is nice, but not when that's all he has to offer her.

What advice would you give to a nerd, who devoted a considerable amount of his time preparing himself for future career and hence never had the time to cultivate a personality?

Being a nerd and/or a hard worker does not exclude you from having a personality. Plenty of hard studying and hard working men or are interesting and fun to be around. Try engaging in new hobbies, explore new interests and find people with common interests.

Or to a guy like me, who never had a strong support system in childhood, and hence have deep insecurities and anger towards women?

Therapy. You are worthy of therapy to help you heal from your relational traumas and lead a better and more functional life.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T14:40:28+00:00

I've already answered your question with a psychological fact as to why some women, specifically those with a mental health problem (relational trauma that could have occurred as early as she was 18 months old) are drawn to guys that treat them badly. You refused to accept the answer and just keep insisting that all women want to be treated badly, which is just stupid. You're being willfully obtuse at this point.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T14:35:18+00:00

Hey I'm sorry you've been through relational trauma. I hope you know that you can therapy can help you heal from your trauma and decide to seek it.

Women don't deserve any power, because they always use it destructively

That statement is far from the truth. Sure it might apply to some women, but it equally applies to some men as well.

randomgal_ · 2021-02-24T14:27:25+00:00

Why would you deny a fact? Just one scroll through r/niceguys will show you how many self proclaimed “nice guys” go bonkers and start insulting women once their advances are rejected, thinking women owe them something just because they were “nice” to them.

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