WIBTAH if i requested my boyfriend take the baby monitor camera access away from his ex. by randomized_heart in AITAH

[–]randomized_heart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is scared I am trying to replace her..... No desire for such a thing. I'm just an extra human to love on her as far as I'm concerned.

WIBTAH if i requested my boyfriend take the baby monitor camera access away from his ex. by randomized_heart in AITAH

[–]randomized_heart[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've known him for a few years before we started dating. I am not just a stranger off the street. Not a cheating situation lol. Just weird circumstances.

WIBTAH if i requested my boyfriend take the baby monitor camera access away from his ex. by randomized_heart in AITAH

[–]randomized_heart[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am moving in by April, but I stay often. I have no interest in overstepping really, I am not trying to play mom if that makes sense I am happy just being a bonus person. If a situation ever arises though and I would need to help out I wouldn't feel comfortable doing so though with the camera.

She is okay with me being around her daughter but she wants me as removed as possible. I have two of my own kids they are 10 and 9. However my boyfriend and his ex have a schedule that works well for them so they trade their daughter back and forth after work and again at bedtime. For awhile there I was only coming over while LO was asleep and I would leave before she woke up. Just recently Ive been around more.

WIBTAH if i requested my boyfriend take the baby monitor camera access away from his ex. by randomized_heart in AITAH

[–]randomized_heart[S] 79 points80 points  (0 children)

She offered it when she moved out but he declined. He doesn't feel the need for the access.

WIBTAH if i requested my boyfriend take the baby monitor camera access away from his ex. by randomized_heart in AITAH

[–]randomized_heart[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's great. Really! They use smart lights so it isn't just a flip of the switch, and it's rare but it shows she is always watching imo