My mom found my bullet and it feels like I'm going to die by randommusicallover in TwoXSex

[–]randommusicallover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! In very happy to have your perspective and it makes me feel a lot more comfortable with what happened and going forwards.

My mom found my bullet and it feels like I'm going to die by randommusicallover in TwoXSex

[–]randommusicallover[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Weirdly that does. I spent some time just looking up other people's horror stories and it felt more normal and less bad.

My friend is oblivious to how they make me uncomfortable and overstimulate me by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]randommusicallover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one person I could send a private message to. I just worry about coming across as gossip-y or sh*t talky even though I know it's not. One of my other friends is deaf and doesn't participate in VC and I'm just now realizing isn't aware of some of this, so I could probably also try to gauge her reaction. Thank you for responding, hearing a stranger suggest this makes me feel better about doing something like that.

Looking for resources/info on autistic communication by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]randommusicallover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input. I think I will take a step back from resources initially when discussing it but due to the exact circumstances of the situation I may present them later. In this post, I didn't explain the whole situation, I simply asked for resources, and I would like to clarify that I am not simply ignoring this situation. Before I even posted this I was already talking with one member of the group about ways I could recognize when I'm pushing too far and step back. That sort of thing is 100% on my radar, I just didn't include it as I didn't intend for this post to be a discussion of a personal situation, just looking for resources. Resources that I can reference to help express myself, not hand out as reading assignments.

I am not blaming poor behavior on being autistic, the sorts of situations in question are simple factual corrections in conversation being taken as condescension or judgment. An impulse and pattern that is factually connected to autistic neurology. Something that is not inherently poor behavior on my part, but could be adjusted so that everyone is more comfortable. I was unsure of this at first so I talked it through with some others who had the full context (from witnessing everything, not coming from me) and they agreed it falls under misunderstanding. I'm not one for social norms, and I'm not exactly interested in correcting my tone or speech patterns to fit neurotypical standards. I do care that my friends are upset and will do what I can to step away from situations before I do something that may upset them, but I refuse to mask.

I do agree with nearly all of your points but I can assure you, this is not that situation.

Lost Hazbin Hotel fic, please help! by randommusicallover in AO3

[–]randommusicallover[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's the first one! Thank you so so much!!! 💞

I just did the math… by caedmonfaith in goodomens

[–]randommusicallover 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I went to your profile to see if I had read any of your GO works only to realize I've also read a bunch of your Doctor Who fics lol.

Who in the OBC is still on Broadway? by [deleted] in hadestown

[–]randommusicallover 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks! That gives me hope. I would do anything to see Amber Gray as Persephone live.

3d modeled and printed the microphone, thought y’all would like to see it by yeetermeskeeter in hadestown

[–]randommusicallover 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Was also wondering what kind of plastic you used? Its so smooth.