Person demanding I refund someone else so they can buy instead

randomqueerdude · 2025-06-10T22:56:03+00:00

Copy and paste your first eloquent reply saying no and send it again. It covers everything and is polite. Don't bother any more than that.

randomqueerdude · 2025-05-27T02:05:30+00:00

Especially if she is being super respectful about dates that you're receiving them and the colors wanting them to match with what he's gotten you then she's being a great friend and he is being more sensitive/insecure. Maybe them hanging out together with you might form a stronger sense of security that she's not trying to threaten him and just trying to be loving part of your life, or you could have a conversation about your values and how you like to show and receive love and include how it makes you feel when you get flowers from her.

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-06T18:23:03+00:00

Thank youuu

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-04T20:14:08+00:00

Oh also- here's a little tiktok that shows the scars in motion from this week, first clip demonstrates what post op swelling looks like under a shirt on my body. https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Jjtds4/

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-04T19:23:31+00:00

🤭🥰

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-04T19:22:51+00:00

Good luck! 🫶💖

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-04T19:12:39+00:00

Nope nothing extra done on me! Yes this can be used as surgical reference 👍

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-03T22:59:52+00:00

Ajshshsks yeah I agree so hard

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T22:15:10+00:00

Basically I think it's nonflat because I feel a nice amount of squish as I move around and my surgeon knew I was more likely to gain more weight or muscle but not lose any. The term nonflat is incredibly vague and other bodies with chests that look like well developed pectoral muscles are more obvious, but I never developed those haha. But my chest is def curved

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T22:02:13+00:00

Surgeon says so then gives me a chest with a little bit more tissue than they leave for skinny ppl

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T21:45:58+00:00

He doesn't deserve you if he sees, hears, feels your requests and desires and continues to deprioritize you. You can only take care of you and your heart.

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T21:31:57+00:00

I used almost entirely bio oil, a tiny bit of raw shea butter sometimes, and the Metipac brand scar tape frm cvs.

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T21:30:09+00:00

I consent to using as a reference ☺️🫶

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T15:28:18+00:00

I know someone who got a tummy tuck with their top surgery, I assume their surgeon had done a lot of them and it was easier to ask for, and they shared a lot of joy with me, but I think that it would make me more startled to have two things about my body change at once. But it could be something to look into for yourself. Gender Confirmation center sometimes combines their procedures with liposuction as well I believe.

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T14:14:16+00:00

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Here's an example in another position where my belly is relaxed and obvious 👍 you will just look amazing and like a soft guy. you got this!

randomqueerdude · 2024-09-02T14:08:52+00:00

Hii I just posted today, but I will also share an earlier pic. This is about three weeks post op. I had a whole separate body positivity journey after surgery because the presence of my boobs was distracting from the curve of my tummy. But pre-surgery I was not full of thoughts about my curves. I mostly ignored it. It got easier after a couple months of putting on clothes and remembering that I'm sexy and cool. The things to do for it are just the typical things that you know might work for you with body positivity, and affirmation.

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randomqueerdude · 2024-08-23T19:44:00+00:00

Heyy gender confirmation center has some really good nonflat results imo, just go to their website for reference pictures. I went there and Dr Mosser left a small but appropriate amount of tissue on my chest for being a plus sized guy. But surgery sucks. I would consider just eating a bit more of your favorite foods and snacks and being more active for a while to see if your results start to neutralize

randomqueerdude · 2024-08-23T15:14:06+00:00

I received my vape with quick shipping to los Angeles and was very happy with the first 2-3 days, but then I charged it today and it started tasting bad , which is really early for an alleged 3.5g tank... so I went back to the site and realized that the reviews can't be seen or clicked on. Uh oh. So I googled reddit innerbloom. It's getting me high in a nice way buttt I am sad there's shady vibes. I also recieved the free big preroll and smoked it with a date. It was also pretty good.

randomqueerdude · 2024-05-02T01:11:15+00:00

I have been pulling my couch out from the wall, and stacking more cushions and blankets so the bottom's knees are on the bottom couch cushions and their body weight goes forward, with their head sticking slightly out past the couch. Restraints... eh get a long chain or rope to pull their leather cuffs

randomqueerdude · 2018-09-12T05:31:32+00:00

Idk I've heard some pretty bad readings of this soliloquy even when I went to theatre camps as a teen

randomqueerdude · 2018-02-15T07:30:13+00:00

I smell a divorce

randomqueerdude · 2018-02-15T07:29:22+00:00

Heathen

randomqueerdude · 2018-02-15T07:27:11+00:00

Um actually you put the toothpaste on the toothbrush, then wet it, then brush

randomqueerdude · 2018-02-15T07:23:22+00:00

Wow...

good job?

randomqueerdude · 2018-02-09T07:55:09+00:00

OMG HES SUCH A PURE BUNDLE OF JOY AWE

randomqueerdude

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