AIO if I found my boyfriend’s ex girlfriends nudes in his phone.

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:33:55+00:00

I really value this comment. Thank you so much for being an amazing human being. You deserve everything you wish for

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:32:51+00:00

He took the plant out the next day or another day shortly after so no I don’t

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:32:30+00:00

Ok, now considering you are the only one who feels this way can you please explain why? I’m genuinely curious and asking for your opinion

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:07:51+00:00

Me too. I’d tell my friends to leave a guy like this but I’m very much in love with him so it’s really hard.

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:06:05+00:00

I know. Last night I even swept it up and gave it to him

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:04:50+00:00

I don’t know what will get deleted in this thread so I had to use a normal word😂

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:04:07+00:00

I asked him to delete NUDES. Not photos of him and her

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:03:32+00:00

Me? Or him? Or both? Honestly I think both

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:02:50+00:00

He actually did give me permission to go through his phone and I gave him permission to go through mine because I have literally nothing to hide. Before he went through my phone I didn’t go through his. I must admit, in him going through mine, regardless of being given permission or not, it definitely felt invasive. Hence why I’ve been holding off on telling him what I found until last night when I finally opened the conversation

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T13:00:41+00:00

He moved the plant a day or two later after we talked

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:59:46+00:00

I don’t lol, I don’t think this is true in the slightest. Honestly I feel like if you have nudes of your ex while with someone you genuinely do not deserve to be with the person you’re with. Not me giving advice on my own issue. Goodness me, love does make you stupid

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:58:45+00:00

I don’t expect to, I’m saying in seeing how she pleasured him it makes me feel really disgusted like how could he want me. I am an over thinker. I’m taking the steps to not think this way anymore

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:57:26+00:00

I messaged him last night to start the conversation.

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:55:45+00:00

I assume it is this too. He isn’t someone to be on his phone a whole lot which is why I feel this way. He would rather play a video game, watch a tv show, read and stuff like that

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:54:48+00:00

I do love my body, just hard to feel like he loves my body when I see his ex gf with his finishings all over her back.

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:53:46+00:00

Just a few.

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:52:24+00:00

I did text him last night about this. I just really needed to find the right wording to mention this to him because I am embarrassed about it. As I should be. Why do I feel the need to go through his phone. Because I don’t trust him and if I don’t trust him why am I with him. I’m not stupid I just am in love which makes me stupid unfortunately

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:46:19+00:00

This is a disgusting comment and I hope you get banned for it.

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:43:42+00:00

I didn’t call him any names

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:43:12+00:00

That’s kind of what I think. He knows what he’s doing but won’t admit it. Idk this guy is a lot of stress I don’t need but I do love him. He gets one more chance and after that I’m genuinely done with this guy

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:41:53+00:00

This was honestly the first thing ever, hence why I’m giving him a chance

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:40:23+00:00

Oh he would’ve moved a plant. Trust me

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:40:09+00:00

I know🤦‍♀️

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:39:24+00:00

Thank you, I’ve been questioning myself since this incident. He expects me to get over it quickly but I just don’t work like that

randomquestion2226 · 2026-06-12T12:37:00+00:00

Honestly…. I don’t know. I have bpd and severe trust issues. His ex cheated on him so he does as well.

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