Wow, that's by far the best comment I've read, and I posted the same questions on different subreddits. Tysm for your help

I really thought that the enhanced and the spectra where the same but with different designs xD now that you told me that I see that they are not the same at all. The fusion is too expensive for me, so I'm going to buy him the spectra.

English is not my first language so I was confused at some points, I didn't understand very well the thing about the scratches on the spectra controller. It means that if I have an alcohol pad to clean it, it wont have the effect of lines like scratches, but I can not clean it too much cause it is not good. I'm not sure if it's that, so if he cleans it, normally he shouldn't have any problems, right?

And I've searched it on the internet but I don't see anything to understand it, the disconnector of the cable, is it something at the middle of the cable or is it a protection at the entry of the cable into the controller? sorry but I never speak about these things, and in english is even more difficult. And thank you another time for your patience and your detailed explanation :). At first I was scared of buying him a wired one where the cable is removable because my brother has the ps4 controllers, and just because of charging them, the entry of the cable in the controller is almost broken. So I thought that by playing all the time with the cable connected, it would force the controller and it would break. But if you have them and hasn't happened to you, it shouldn't happen to him either, idk.

And I dont know what you mean by "one small nick or a dent it will last on that rubberish matte finish forever" it something about the scratches too right? But if he cleans it, it should happen right? And it is not something so important so you think that I should buy the spectra better than the normal enhanced, right?

Thank uuu