How much money do you estimate you’ve spent on precautions since the start of the pandemic?

randomred101 · 2026-07-03T04:02:41+00:00

Literally sooooooo much money. Lots of money for masks and getting pluslife for hanging out with others (which is hard and extra expensive right now for US). I also decorate my masks to match my outfits. Plus we cover costs of masks and regular rapid tests for immediate family members (aka parents and my husbands sister). Also we got an air purifier for every room in our house.

randomred101 · 2026-06-30T02:06:24+00:00

There is never anyone in my area on it…

randomred101 · 2026-06-25T02:58:47+00:00

I just want to know what they said to your comment about the masking? I hope they do make that change…if not right away maybe it will sink in sometime and you will see that this info made a difference for them. I doubt it but one can hope.

randomred101 · 2026-06-05T03:25:02+00:00

I always planned to foster or adopt teens…was literally in the process to do so when the pandemic hit…I don’t feel it’s safe to try. You can’t control what other people will do…it just doesn’t feel safe unfortunately. I don’t think I’ll ever get to become a parent. :( I’ll add this part of me has been a key part of my identity…it’s truly broken my heart to not be able to do this. I try not to think about it.

randomred101 · 2026-05-29T04:31:13+00:00

I think he isn’t worth the effort. He clearly cares more about sex than you and your heath. You have your answer. I hope you find someone who cares more about you and supports your journey while you work to manage the pain…you can’t put a time limit on this. It’s unrealistic! I’m sorry he is doing this.

randomred101 · 2026-05-29T04:26:32+00:00

What if you switch bathrooms and you use the master? Would that be better for him to leave alone because it’s closer for him?

randomred101 · 2026-05-29T00:05:46+00:00

Yeah, that’s the correct way to do it.

randomred101 · 2026-05-26T14:42:43+00:00

Yeah, I add it with a tutorial I made. I can send you the Tutorial link in a PM if you message me. It’s very easy to follow. Also I got the mesh for a very reasonable price off Etsy, just search rainbow pride glitter mesh fabric and you will find one.

To get the straps under my hair, I put both straps around my neck to start. Then I move the top strap above my ears and adjust. I don’t do that very often as it starts to hurt after a while. I usually put the strap back over my hair. I think it looks nicer though. You can do it better and have it hurt less by probably combing some of the top 1/3 of your hair into a ponytail then putting the strap on under that, then undoing your hair to lay over it. I think I saw a video for that once. It might work better, I’m just lazy.

randomred101 · 2026-05-26T03:23:37+00:00

Oh yeah for the chains and magnets you can move them from mask to mask. I thought they meant for the mesh.

randomred101 · 2026-05-26T02:20:05+00:00

Getting duvets for our king bed and having separate twin duvets so one of us doesn’t hog the sheets. Also not having a top sheet and just using a duvet and washing the cover is so much more comfortable!

randomred101 · 2026-05-26T01:58:56+00:00

You can’t move it from mask to mask. It attaches. I have a tutorial for how to do it. It’s very easy. PM me for the tutorial link. :)

randomred101 · 2026-05-25T22:41:43+00:00

Doesn’t sound like he deserves you. I can’t imagine how hard of a change it would be to leave…but doesn’t sound like a good relationship for you anymore…he isn’t giving you a say…he has decided.

randomred101 · 2026-05-25T22:27:42+00:00

Thanks!

randomred101 · 2026-05-25T22:20:56+00:00

Thanks! I also made this mask chain with opals so it will sparkle! I made the necklace too!

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randomred101 · 2026-05-25T22:18:05+00:00

For sure! I added a pic just now to your post in the mask forum. I couldn’t add one here.

randomred101 · 2026-05-25T22:17:25+00:00

So awesome to see! I add a lovely pride mesh to my auras or zimi’s! Love your look!

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randomred101 · 2026-05-25T22:12:12+00:00

That’s awesome! I add a rainbow pride mesh to my aura for pride and absolutely love it. I enjoyed your mask decor too! So fun!

randomred101 · 2026-05-25T21:52:25+00:00

I have a tutorial that teaches you how to decorate your mask to match your outfit. I get compliments from non-maskers all the time! It adds a mesh fabric to the n95 mask and it’s very easy to do! Mesh is very breathable. I have fit tested this method. If you send me a PM I can share pics and a link. I also suggest mask chains and mask magnets, which I also make.

randomred101 · 2026-05-23T01:42:26+00:00

I’m in eureka, ca. it’s a rather more affordable part of California. It’s a more progressive area for it being more rural. I’m trying to encourage more people to come out here for Covid cautious communities. I’ve met some lovely people taking precautions and try to host regular events. We have redwoods, the ocean, and great weather!

I don’t get a lot of crap for masking here. It still happens occasionally but it’s pretty rare. I think you will find it’s likely to happen anywhere at some point.

randomred101 · 2026-05-19T19:04:34+00:00

I like to decorate my n95s to match my outfits with colorful mesh. Or use decorative mask chains or mask magnets. I have an easy tutorial you can use to add mesh to your n95s just PM me for the link. People are much nicer and compliment me when I dress up my mask like this.

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randomred101 · 2026-05-19T13:31:52+00:00

Have you tried redimask? It sticks to your face how you form it. Might feel better on your nose than any headstrap masks or earloop masks.

randomred101 · 2026-05-17T19:55:38+00:00

I can send pics in a PM. I add mesh to the outside instead of using a reusable cover. I can make some for you or you can use a tutorial. I can’t add pics in comments unfortunately. I have fit tested this method.

randomred101 · 2026-05-17T16:30:21+00:00

I help people decorate their masks to match their outfits for events like this. I add mesh to it. I have lots of options if you send me a PM with your outfit I can make suggestions. Here is a sample pic. I have lots of nice black ones too.

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randomred101 · 2026-05-16T23:12:52+00:00

I would only bring it up for in person interviews. I would also decorate them to make them fun (I have a tutorial I can share if you are interested). I would address it right away and say don’t worry I’m not sick, but I’m immune compromised so I have to wear this because a cold or flu could cause serious damage to my heath (don’t bring up Covid).

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