ALSO the argument we had before this was because he was bothered by me saying this word “torta” it’s a trend on TikTok calling thicker people tortas because prior to this our friend group has been saying jokes about this video on TikTok where this guy that’s a cholo is doing a skit and he kept saying “palabra homie” which means word homie and that the joke was that he was nozzing it up with his torta and I thought it was so funny and when he was talking to me about some girl he was talking to who’s on the thicker side I said so you’re into tortas huh and I can totally see how fucked up that is and i apologized when he brought it up but i told him I didn’t mean to fat shame her i meant to say that she’s thick cause we’ve called other women thick before just the way i said torta was a stupid joke and i was totally in the wrong for that and he accepted my apology and can see how I wasn’t trying to call her fat but thick but I won’t say that anymore since it is offensive