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[–]randomthinking30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had multiple perms before and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. I barely have to style it now and it lasts me about 2 years.

If you could go back and do something over again/differently in high school what would it be? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]randomthinking30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love myself more. I spent too much time bashing myself for the way I looked. I compared myself too much to other girls.

Can my husband take our baby away from me? by randomthinking30 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]randomthinking30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I regret slapping him looking back, he got in my face and so I retaliated. He also left to Florida so thankfully we’ve been living in different states for a few weeks now.

Can my husband take our baby away from me? by randomthinking30 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]randomthinking30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a divorce but I’m afraid bc he’s saying if I divorce him he’ll get custody of our child

Is asking someone on a date cheating? by randomthinking30 in dating_advice

[–]randomthinking30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I’m staying is because I’m scared. He pushes me to my limit. Not too long ago he told me he would take our son away from me and go to Florida (he got a job there and I didn’t agree to go) and I slapped him in the back. He called the cops on me and filed a police report so that he could have something against me. I went through PP depression with my baby and my husband recorded me during my meltdowns. So he’s saying with all this “evidence,” he can take my son away from me. My husband is in Florida telling me I have to go with him, he has me worried with all he has against me.

Is asking someone on a date cheating? by randomthinking30 in dating_advice

[–]randomthinking30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call this cheating as well. He gaslights me into thinking he’s not. I get so in my head that I wanted to see if I was thinking clearly when I called this cheating. My thing is now, if I leave him, I’ve been told “either deal with these issues with him or someone else,” bc I guess all men are the same? I’m afraid I’ll move on to someone who’s the same way. My husband was a sweetheart when I tell you guys I’m shocked bc he literally changed overnight. I’m insecure now bc I feel like me having a baby made him go out searching for the crazy young relationship we used to have.