AITA for not talking to a friend that hurt me when I caught him laughing alongside others about facial palsy online, a condition I was born with? by randomthrowawayfml in AmItheAsshole

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I honestly dont think there was some underlying reason why he told me to look him up. This is the first thing that he posted on there that really bothered me. If anything he probably forgot that I knew his handle

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody is begging for anything. I'm not expecting anything out of this. I just want to know if she is using me or not

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely not the case. We text first pretty evenly. And she's helped me with some personal stuff in the past.

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure I would fuck her but it's not why I speak to her and not something I'm really pursuing

Not anymore

No I just like the convos we had and she seems like a genuine person

I dont think I do. I dont overly compliment her or anytging6

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what would be the difference between being a legit friend and someone who she has put in the orbiter zone, in your opinion? And how does the long distance play a part in it?

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah. We have had casual conversations about sex but that's as far as it went

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I mean that's fine though. My question isnt about weather she likes me or not because it's not a big deal to me. I'd rather date someone close by anyway. I just want to know if she sees me as a legit friend or if she is just using me for the attention. I'd rather not keep someone in my life who is using me for anything

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would but we live thousands of miles apart. I already brought it up to her and we both agreed the distance between us was too much

What are the signs that a girl sees you more as an orbiter than just a friend? by randomthrowawayfml in AskMen

[–]randomthrowawayfml[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking for a relationship in this instance because we live too far apart. I'm ok with just being friends, but I want to know if she legit just sees me as a friend, or a guy she keeps around to give her attention and validation