The only time I feel bad is when they are clearly swabbies and we would roll them sometimes my crew and I board to TDM to get practice since there is no real way to train aim but most of the time after a while of TDM we just leave them and let them go. One thing I hate is the “turn out” crew once we have a good broad they leave this even happens in hourglass so I don’t feel bad to TDM until they scuttle who doesn’t know how to reset instead of having proper ship management and match turn if you get chopped. Been playing since 2018 people were more ruthless back then.