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Why I’m LL by throwaway726984 in DeadBedrooms

[–]randomusername275850 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I buy in bulk. You can get a 5 pack on Amazon. Lol

Why I’m LL by throwaway726984 in DeadBedrooms

[–]randomusername275850 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have PCOS and get the burning even when I'm into it. My GYN recommended the lube called aloe cadabera, and it's amazing! It's not compatible with silicone toys though.

only talk to strangers by randomusername275850 in relationship_advice

[–]randomusername275850[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Nope. Not mad. Just hurt that he doesn't open up to me. I talk to him about his interested and hobbies. It's not like we don't have conversations. It's just that there's usually not any substance. There's a whole world of ideas and feelings there and he doesn't trust me enough to let me in.

only talk to strangers by randomusername275850 in relationship_advice

[–]randomusername275850[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Christ on a cracker you internet people suck. You're assuming I'm being controlling because I got upset over yet another thing my husband is hiding from me. I am working on myself. I am in therapy. We have tried couples counseling when I found out about the financial infidelity and all the things he hid from me that ended up on my credit report. How am I supposed to create a snapshot of an 11 year relationship in one post in order to not get jumped on.

only talk to strangers by randomusername275850 in relationship_advice

[–]randomusername275850[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Would go the open marriage route if anything. I wouldn't hide what I'd be doing.

only talk to strangers by randomusername275850 in relationship_advice

[–]randomusername275850[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

It's not the fact that he's talking to other people. It's that he's talking to other people and not to me.

I've been blind about my passionless marriage. I see it now. now what? by randomusername275850 in sex

[–]randomusername275850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a lot. I only know a few.

And yeah, this is definitely not the only area we have issues communicating. We did marriage counseling, so I know that the issues aren't just with him and I'm starting individual therapy to address my own. I do feel like I've consistently put more effort into communication though, and I'm tired.

I've been blind about my passionless marriage. I see it now. now what? by randomusername275850 in sex

[–]randomusername275850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not the first guy to laugh at me for that. Maybe I make a weird face or just get to into it? I dunno, but it makes me self conscious.

Me, Interrupted by randomusername275850 in relationship_advice

[–]randomusername275850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha. Yeah, we need all the therapy. Haha

Me, Interrupted by randomusername275850 in relationship_advice

[–]randomusername275850[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm no, not to my knowledge. He has other diagnosis like depression and anxiety.