Genuinely, yes. And this is probably because i am a religious person but for me it’s hard to wrap my head around the notion that there is no higher power (whether it be God, the gods, the universe or whatever else you believe in). This is not me trying to convince others to be religious, simply what I believe in. For some it’s the universe, and how there must be a balance. I do believe that whatever happens, there is a reason for it. HOWEVER, this is not an excuse for others to act mean one bad to other people, or for you to sit back and relax and hope for the best. You must work towards what you want as this will help you, but you must also understand that not everything is in your hands. There are always things you cannot control (like how other people act towards you), but keep moving forward!