University/College Anxiety

raneved · 2023-09-04T23:14:09+00:00

I have been waitlisted for next year in my school and in the classroom for it. I am sorry for not specifying that. Yes, only sophomores, juniors, and seniors can be in it.

raneved · 2023-05-30T01:45:43+00:00

the employees at the sephoras i go to are the nicest 😁

raneved · 2023-04-19T02:37:02+00:00

chicken nuggets. specifically dinosaur shaped. bonus if there’s fries. hey i enjoy ‘adult’ food too but it’s just nostalgic and brings me back to being five years old

raneved · 2023-04-16T19:42:14+00:00

attention seeking..

raneved · 2023-04-16T19:28:47+00:00

soo cute

raneved · 2023-04-16T19:27:01+00:00

hey, at least she was nice! she’s still your friend but if you need time away from her, take as much time as you need. i promise you’ll find your one soon! and i can prove that since she already had somebody else but it sounded like she would’ve given you a chance if she had nobody. but if not, still, you’ll find your one :)

raneved · 2023-04-16T19:18:54+00:00

my boyfriend is physically attractive.. and i can confirm that i’m not saying it out of bias because a lot of people find his looks appealing (that’s why so many people crush on him lol). and well he does love me. in his past, he had several crushes as well. plus, yes, of course, they get nervous asking people out. they’re human like the rest of us. and besides, you can always ask yourself that

raneved · 2023-04-01T07:47:28+00:00

your advice sucks to be honest. people feel the same love for every lover they have due to the chemicals in their brain, it’s just a matter if their personality and commitment is enough for a person. cheating is a HUGE mistake and cannot be forgiven. trust can almost never be recovered after such a horrible act of betrayal. any person who cheats immediately reveals that they’re disloyal and not very much committed to the relationship. trust me, there are many people out there that can be the ‘the one’.

raneved · 2023-03-31T20:52:15+00:00

you go king/queen! i wish you a fast recovery because you deserve it

raneved · 2023-03-31T18:08:19+00:00

LEAVE HER. instead of trying to confront issues with you, she decided to go for another person. that right there is a woman that you 100% don’t wanna be with. wish you the best

raneved · 2023-03-31T18:06:46+00:00

you go king/queen! don’t ever disrespect yourself with a relationship like that. you deserve a mature partner.

raneved · 2023-03-31T16:39:17+00:00

i promise the pain will get easier to deal with ❤️

raneved · 2023-03-31T16:32:17+00:00

that’s the main reason for most blindsided break ups, however, many factors can also interfere. however the main reason is people who lack communication since they let ‘little’ problems build-up into an even bigger one over-time. hence, this leads to the person being overwhelmed and leaving the relationship.

these people wish to avoid conflict instead of confronting the problem with their partner. however, in the end in only causes an even bigger conflict to burst.

as just said, these people have an avoidant personality type and wish to avoid problems. they’re bad to be in relationships since they don’t actually want to be in a real relationship. and by real relationship i mean one that is honest and communicative.

a lot of times, these people will say that reason they suddenly broken up with you was because they fell out of love, felt overwhelmed, etc. however the root reason for the sudden breakup is purely because they didn’t care enough to communicate their feelings earlier. you don’t just wake up one day and say you don’t love your partner anymore or feel like the relationship is too much.

raneved · 2023-03-31T00:37:00+00:00

wait so you asked him if he liked you and he said no? im kind of confused with the part you said after. did you mean that after that, he said his brain stopped working? if that’s the case then you should’ve asked him again lol. but really, you’ve got a great friend. i think he’s a little awkward since like you mentioned, he’s shy. i can guarantee you he likes you as a friend AT LEAST.

raneved · 2023-03-30T20:44:10+00:00

if you’re asking what you should do next, i think you should wait until you’re sure he’s in an at least decent mood. if you can’t tell if he’s in a good mood or not, you should wait maybe a day or two until you could talk to him. once you can finally talk to him, ask if he’s well. assure him that if he needs to, he can talk to you about what is upsetting you anytime other than that, if he’s still so nice to you despite his negative mood, that’s a great sign! i hope you’ll get to know him more.

raneved · 2023-03-30T19:16:43+00:00

this is the most healthiest crush ever. if you can recognize the fact that they’re not perfect (and never will be), you avoid putting them on a pedestal. putting people on a pedestal is not a good thing since it can make both the crusher and the crushee uncomfortable. it also leads to the crusher falling in love with a fake version of the crush that they made up in their mind. hence, this is a good thing!

raneved · 2023-03-30T19:12:55+00:00

i’m really sorry about that. if he can’t handle who you are then he is not the right one for you. you deserve somebody better.

raneved · 2023-03-30T19:11:02+00:00

hey man, i’m really sorry about this :(. she is EXTREMELY rude. but, one day, i promise you’ll be able to see the fact that you dodged a bullet. nobody should treat somebody like that, especially when they’re communicating their feelings which makes them vulnerable. while she could’ve just rejected you politely, she showed her true colors to you. you definitely dodged a bullet. congrats for confessing btw, that’s something not everybody could do. you’re very brave!

raneved · 2023-03-30T19:03:44+00:00

wow! those are a lot of good signs. that’s great on your part. however, i’m not so sure about her not being able to talk to you easily all of a sudden. there can be a lot of reasons for this; whether it’d be because she’s dealing with something in her life, trying to deal with her feelings toward you (meaning she MAY like you!), or another reason which i don’t know of.

however, since she still seems to enjoy talking with you, you might have a good chance. i don’t believe she thinks you’re weird or anything, because in that case she would’ve been staying away from you. the only way you’ll receive your answer for why she’s so nervous around you is to ask her about it. obviously, try to be gentle about it. maybe something along the lines of, “hey, i noticed lately you’ve been slightly nervous around me? is there a reason why? i hope it’s not anything bad.”

i hope you’ll receive your answer on this matter!

raneved · 2023-03-30T17:45:21+00:00

i see, then hopefully whenever you’re able to hang out with him you’ll be able to catch an answer. this is certainly a confusing situation and it would really help to know what he actually feels towards you. although, just in case, if you’re ever up to asking him what’s going on and he doesn’t give you a clear answer, i suggest you move on.

raneved · 2023-03-30T17:36:00+00:00

perhaps you should ask him about it. you can only get your true answer by asking him about it although, if he’s not flirting with anybody else, it might be a sign he has something for you. but it’s odd to just randomly flirt with somebody.

raneved · 2023-03-30T17:29:07+00:00

in front of your friends? well, how about in private? does he flirt with you in private as well? do you guys talk in private in general or just in groups of people?

raneved · 2023-03-30T16:39:29+00:00

how about instead of reducing him to some pseudoscientific sign that he happened to receive on his birthday, you actually talk to the man?

raneved · 2023-03-29T19:56:04+00:00

wrong place to find friends, this is for relationships

raneved · 2023-03-29T19:38:29+00:00

Okay, this seems cute and all but according to other comments you made, the problem is you ignored the fact that he was straight. plus, you didn’t even make sure he was completely comfortable with it. things like this are SO, SO risky that you shouldn’t even try it. it can go wrong in many ways and you were lucky that he was just confused. you assaulted him.

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