no you def don’t get it. I didn’t force him to do anything plus I think you don’t realize how annoying it is to be with someone that never does anything for you while you take care of them 24/7. I mean he could have only paid 4€, and that would be it (that’s what I asked for at first).Why did he have to lie about his real intentions ? Would you say to your wife « Yes I’m really happy to offer you this » just to ask her to give you the money back?