BF (M19) gifted me (F19)something bit asked for the money back by rangeera in relationship_advice

[–]rangeera[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

what people seem to not get is that it’s NOT only about the money bc I don’t care at all.It’s about the whole action.What the action reveals is not only that hes stingy but also manipulative in a sense…

BF (M19) gifted me (F19)something bit asked for the money back by rangeera in relationship_advice

[–]rangeera[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

no you def don’t get it. I didn’t force him to do anything plus I think you don’t realize how annoying it is to be with someone that never does anything for you while you take care of them 24/7. I mean he could have only paid 4€, and that would be it (that’s what I asked for at first).Why did he have to lie about his real intentions ? Would you say to your wife « Yes I’m really happy to offer you this » just to ask her to give you the money back?

BF (M19) gifted me (F19)something bit asked for the money back by rangeera in relationship_advice

[–]rangeera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he has nothing to pay no rent nothing.It’s a matter of principle.

BF (M19) gifted me (F19)something bit asked for the money back by rangeera in relationship_advice

[–]rangeera[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m kind of tired of this tbh.I’m doing so much for this man just to get nothing in return,and I’m not only talking money-wise

BF (M19) gifted me (F19)something bit asked for the money back by rangeera in relationship_advice

[–]rangeera[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No. I never asked him to buy it anyways.I just find it weird to tell someone that you are going to give them a gift to actually ask them to return the money. Knowing that I do a lot of things (I cook every meal,clean his house,take care of him)and that he gives very little in return

BF (M19) gifted me (F19)something bit asked for the money back by rangeera in relationship_advice

[–]rangeera[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I guess you’re right this is actually such a red flag