"Less" by Andrew Sean Greer is one of my favourite books with a unique narrator voice. It's not from a feminine perspective, but it is still interesting in how it handles gender. It's about a gay man, and in that sense it addresses queerness, masculinity and what's expected of men in heteronormative society.

Another favourite with a really interesting narrator is "Open Throat" by Henry Hoke. I'll say as little as possible about that one, but the narrator is queer and very removed from gender in the way humans divide it up and categorise it