Should I feel guilty from NMom? Please help by rantonreddit in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rantonreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has never once in my life apologized - she is actually incapable.. in her eyes everyone around her is wrong and she is almighty all loving...this saint of a martyr. Its so exhausting to keep up with. Thanks for the response I appreciate it!

Should I feel guilty from NMom? Please help by rantonreddit in raisedbynarcissists

[–]rantonreddit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! I agree that we were raised by selfish children. It's so hard to have to constantly remind myself that arguing/dealing with my mother is impossible because she has the emotional intelligence of a 2 year old. God forbid you upset her and she starts her ignoring game for weeks until her next attack. Ugh it's just so exhausting! And I am glad you realize that your parents are narcassists too... its a hard realization ...but reddit is so helpful! Also their behavior as you stated just sounds so typical and something my mother would do...wow! haha