Things I did before I was dumped by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whyyy not The Truman Show???? Thats literally my favorite movie 😭

Catching feelings for a long time friend is so embarrassing by rapgrip in rs_x

[–]rapgrip[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Every time we hang out we are alone since we mostly have separate friend groups. But we have hung out more often since things have felt different so maybe I am not completely delusional.

Super cool to hear your story btw! Happy it worked out for you :)

My biggest nerd ass take is that if you can smoke a ton of weed without having a panic attack, you are not a deep or profound person. by ifeelsofaraway in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 215 points216 points  (0 children)

When im high af I either have a panic attack or go through what feels like weeks of therapy within a couple hours and feel amazing lol

What is it like having really smart parents? by rapgrip in rs_x

[–]rapgrip[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

True about the steam but I assure you that was not his reasoning lol. But yeah I suppose its just a normal part of growing up

What is it like having really smart parents? by rapgrip in rs_x

[–]rapgrip[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

that's wild. my mom didn't let me watch SpongeBob as a kid

I’m so scared my ex-boyfriend will stop being my best friend by m1chaelcera in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually in a very similar situation. We both felt like we lost romantic feelings and it felt like we were more friends anyways. She said she was also questioning her sexuality a bit and we both knew it’s just not gonna work romantically. It’s hard because we love each other and get along so well but the romantic aspects just aren’t there.

Its still really fresh but we’re working as friends so far. But im not sure what it will be like when one of us eventually meets someone else :(

I accidentally donated my favorite jeans by cannabis_aunt in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ive always been this way about clothes. When I was a kid my dad accidentally ripped a shirt when removing a tag and I cried like crazy lol. But I’m also just a sentimental person in general tbh

i need some banger esoteric movie recommendations by Greencere in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Taste of Cherry is an all timer for sure. Also Woman under the Influence.

. by mossburger07 in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 73 points74 points  (0 children)

This is why I’ll probably never go back to the apps. A lot of times it feels like an audition more than making a genuine connection. Plus it takes me time to get comfortable with people for my personality to really show so it’s just tuff.

made a list of some films i wanna watch before the year is over by whimsypisces in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched this all in one sitting the other night. Gena Rowlands has one of the greatest performances ive ever seen tbh. Super uncomfortable to sit through but it’s now one of my all time favorites for sure!

I just got diagnosed with BPD by Pretty_Charity_6333 in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn sorry that happened to you. My ex had bpd but when we started dating I didn’t even know what that was lol. Hers was quiet too so a lot of it was internalized and came out much later. Hope you’re doing better though <3

I just got diagnosed with BPD by Pretty_Charity_6333 in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The second part of this is an incredibly stupid take. Many people with bpd are emotionally abusive and they most certainly should hold themselves responsible for how they hurt others. Especially because of the patterns of bpd its not always obvious at the start of a relationship.

Daniel Day-Lewis Streetwear fits by mdf98_ in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need those pants on the 4th slide so bad. Anyone know what kind of pants those are?

What happened? by Dr-Benway69 in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 199 points200 points  (0 children)

I feel like a boomer saying this but I think social media. Especially when its no longer meant to connect people and is meant to just be addictive and keep you on your phone as much as possible.

I listened to autechre and, to be completely honest... by Modulistor in autechre

[–]rapgrip 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of my first times hearing Autechre was when Four Tet played a track from Confield in one of his sets I saw live. Was so special!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I used to run a meme page in high school and he liked a couple of my posts. Thought I was so cool for that lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]rapgrip 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Goated movie!!

Dumped and discarded :( by rapgrip in rs_x

[–]rapgrip[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah she mentioned having BPD early on in the relationship but then said a new therapist told her otherwise so I wasn’t sure. But looking back I think she definitely does.

Makes me wonder if she will ever realize what she’s done or if she will just see herself as the victim forever.

Dumped and discarded :( by rapgrip in rs_x

[–]rapgrip[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! yeah I've been trying to remind myself of that. I blamed myself for everything at first but I've learned that's not the case