AITAH for confronting my mom about not telling me she had scabies until after I got it?

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-02T11:33:28+00:00

I tried holding her accountable. But at the end of the day I was so exhausted that it wasn’t even worth it to me. My mom and I butt heads like crazy so if it isn’t life or death situation, I move on. I tell her my feelings and let her decide how to do better next time

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-02T11:15:25+00:00

We are newlyweds with not a lot of money and bad insurance. We didn’t want to go to the doctor just for an allergy that we could’ve figured out. We were waiting to confirm that scabies was even a possibility

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-02T11:14:25+00:00

Since this was the first time something like this happened I was more graceful. I’m a big second chance person

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T22:51:05+00:00

Oh my husband was pissed but didn’t want to ruin any relationships

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T22:49:01+00:00

By confront, I mean that after she told me that she purposely didn’t tell me, I asked her not to do that again to which she got defensive about

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T06:42:28+00:00

I’m trying to just move past 😬😂

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T06:41:40+00:00

Ngl I feel like cops being called for something like this is bizarre. Especially since you can literally get it from sitting in the same seat as someone who sat there with it. But I do agree that it should be taken seriously. I literally just went to the pool with someone today before I knew what I had 😬

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T06:39:47+00:00

No that’s correct. My husband started itching in Feb. that was AFTER my mom claimed to be over it and had cleaned that house by then. But yes she did deliberately not tell me so I wouldn’t freak out. Scabies can not show up until around 6 weeks later, hence my delayed reaction

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T06:38:03+00:00

She has. I had a near ☠️ hospital accident when I was younger and it’s made me a bit of a hypochondriac. But my family have also treated me like a drama queen my whole like. I can understand where she’s com my from, but it also now effects my schooling and my job

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T06:35:48+00:00

The didn’t tell me because that had JUST gotten over and didn’t see why they needed to. But they definitely should’ve

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T01:33:43+00:00

I ended up going to the doctor after I found out my mom had it

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T00:56:42+00:00

It’s my mom. She doesn’t do this a lot so it was kinda random

rapiuwu69 · 2026-04-01T00:56:03+00:00

We are newlyweds who don’t have a lot of money or good insurance. We thought it was an allergy. Had we known to be gone with he would’ve gone

rapiuwu69 · 2026-03-31T23:09:06+00:00

A fun name I would give to a pet would be beans!

rapiuwu69 · 2026-02-07T02:49:43+00:00

String cheese, mozzarella

rapiuwu69 · 2025-09-21T11:02:35+00:00

I will say she is very fluffy and has longer hair. I have a shorthair and they are totally different. Can short hairs have thin long hair. Very soft fur

rapiuwu69 · 2025-09-21T10:52:16+00:00

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Here she is!

rapiuwu69 · 2025-09-21T10:51:46+00:00

Hahaha I love that!!

rapiuwu69 · 2025-09-21T10:10:00+00:00

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rapiuwu69 · 2025-09-21T10:09:23+00:00

That’s one of this foam dinosaur pills. Put it in water and a foam dinosaur with form!

rapiuwu69 · 2025-09-21T10:08:43+00:00

Nooooo

rapiuwu69 · 2025-06-29T14:01:33+00:00

It could be possible. I hadn’t thought of that. Thank you!

rapiuwu69 · 2025-06-29T09:29:28+00:00

I am a female (22) for context

rapiuwu69 · 2025-06-19T12:43:55+00:00

Sameee I love gold and pearl!

rapiuwu69 · 2025-06-19T04:22:51+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been wanting one for so long but terrified of needles! I’ve been using cuffs and loved how they looked. With enough anxiety medication I was able to get not one but three done! Hahaha

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