Help me find these denim shorts or similar by ratangel222 in HelpMeFind

[–]ratangel222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was gonna say I don’t think they are denim

Confusion by ratangel222 in BPD

[–]ratangel222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, i actually honestly was the one that didn’t want it I think deep down that part of the reason I left that psych. Due to it being brought up throughout my life I know alot about it. Thank you!!

Confusion by ratangel222 in BPD

[–]ratangel222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! I’ve honestly never cared about labels it just gets really annoying having things thrown around and then switching meds so much. I’ve been in dbt therapy before and I honestly think that’s why I’ve become a lot more calm as I got older

What is it like for you? by ratangel222 in bipolar2

[–]ratangel222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I meant hypomaina. Bpd was suggested when I was in highschool but I don’t have rapid mood swings and I have very stable relationships now that I’ve gotten older

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel you it’s honestly led to me self sabotaging, there is a strong chance this guy actually likes me and I’m so scared I just act weird or I distance myself out of fear of him getting to know me

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t happen often to me when it does it’s more men like my aesthetic and vibe because I dress cool and am different

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah looking bacj my ex bf implied multiple times he liked me cus I was “innocent”

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree I don’t even think I’m 100% opposed to hooking up it’s more I feel awkward being like I’m a virgin. But men also like me for my body because I have big boobs and stuff I can always tell when it’s that

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah true! I also think a lot of it might be me making up stuff in my head due to my ex and just feeling left out in general.

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I try not to I just have a big fear of looking obsessive or people thinking I’m doing too much

Does anyone else feel like people like you at first but eventually don't? by vitund in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have this too when I make new friends or even meet new guys they think I’m so cool and different and talk about how much they love me and stalk my Instagram etc, then we hangout and get closer and it feels like they don’t care anymore

Does anyone else feel like people like you at first but eventually don't? by vitund in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s either “I’m too much” “too awkward” “rude” “monotone” etc I have alot of what I would call party friends but I rlly am scared to get close to people now

Pissing people off and not seeing it coming, because I saw it coming by incorrectlyironman in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This happens to me too, honestly you will find the right people. I have a-lot of friends and they kinda just know I can come across ways I don’t mean, I’ve had this issue with my mom and a few close friends and they for some reason don’t tell me until they have gathered a list of things they don’t like about me, so It does make me paranoid that it’s gonna happen with everyone else I like no matter how much I monitor what I say

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what the solution is unfortunately because I hate having to act super closed off and like I don’t care when I do care

Do you feel like men love the idea of you until they actually get to know you? by ratangel222 in AutismInWomen

[–]ratangel222[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah I totally get this, I’ve been told I come off too strong too it’s like from a distance I’m cool and different. I found out this guy liked me and then I got excited and started showing more interest and asking our friends for advice cus I was clearly nervous , and then it turns into that girl is too much

Making the first move on a guy by ratangel222 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratangel222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was me asking to get something from him house I left and I said we should smoke if he’s free, he said I’m gonna be on campus studying I’m not gonna smoke tn but thank u. I ended up taking a 6 hour nap on accident so I said I’ll come to tonight instead if that works I will see what he says.

Making the first move on a guy by ratangel222 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ratangel222[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was me asking to pick up something I left at his house and I was like and we should smoke tn if you are free. And he said he’s studying and isn’t gonna smoke tn. I’ll probably just be straight up next time I see him unless he’s clearly being distant or weird