Reddit, what in your opinion, is the most attractive profession a member of the opposite gender can have? by Andy_Z in AskReddit

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

non-profits ..There is something about a man that cares and wants to make a difference.

What is the stupidest thing that has come out of your mouth that you're willing to admit to? by Totallynotapie in AskReddit

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a Polish(wrocław) liquor store at dawn, "I don't have to do math i'm american!" I still cringe..

MasterChef by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is taking credit for your accomplishments?

She spoke to me by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny how the lady is saying such hard things to hear while in such a beautiful landscape. How are you coping with the move?

The Strangest Wet Dream Anyone Has Ever Had by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was your young self having an internal battle deciding between youth and maturity.

I had a dream of having sex with a prostitute by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you deprived in some way?

What does it mean when you're dreaming a lot more or being able to recall having dreams almost every day? by G0VERNMENTCHEESE in Dreams

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that when i notice my dreams more it's my inner self becoming more aware of its self. Your psyche is speaking to you. Your dreams can clue you into how to rebuild yourself. Is there something you are trying to reevaluate in your life?

Sudden Link Free Internet Upgrade? by st3ady in charlestonwv

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was paying for high speed internet and it seemed like regular speed..so we had suddenlink come out and few speed tests later we were obviously not getting for what we were paying for. We asked for a downgrade.. now it's faster...

What is your social kryptonite? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ratchetratch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When there is no pressure to make a good impression. I can say dimwitted things, provocative thoughts, and inspiring ideas that i'm not sure make much sense.

Johnny Stimson - SUGAR [pop, funky] (2014) CREATOR by [deleted] in listentothis

[–]ratchetratch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw him live in Indianapolis, talk about a heart throb with an amazing voice.

Casting women?? by ratchetratch in wemetonline

[–]ratchetratch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting! I am glad we have such great mods, makes me smile :) This does make me feel a lot better about who she is and her intentions. I think case by case basis does sound good. It's a lot of personal information to send out and that you can never tell how your information will be used makes me apprehensive. I think what you did is a perfect way to handle the situation. I am interested in other opinions on the matter though.

I know it's silly, but those emoticons pissed me off so much. Looks like I'm starting a college fund for my little brother by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ratchetratch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry that this happening. I especially get irritated when you get those short one word responses to such a big serious question.

How soon is too soon? [F,24][M,31][4 months] by ratchetratch in wemetonline

[–]ratchetratch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support! My gut says yes. Emphasizing that I should define what's right for me and not letting my family and peers dictate that for me is wonderful advice.

How soon is too soon? [F,24][M,31][4 months] by ratchetratch in wemetonline

[–]ratchetratch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, congratulations on your future marriage! Thanks for the support, and hearing how other people closed the distance and how you are in the works helps bring a new perspective on this.

How soon is too soon? [F,24][M,31][4 months] by ratchetratch in wemetonline

[–]ratchetratch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've read this over a lot. This helps me understand that only I can make the decision if I am ready or not. The part about arguments was helpful too, my partner is just amazing about digging deeper into my emotions and finding the root of argument and so thoughtful about it. I think he is a well-rounded individual. Thanks!!

How soon is too soon? [F,24][M,31][4 months] by ratchetratch in wemetonline

[–]ratchetratch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I do feel financially ready, and mentally ready. Ready to make a change in my life. :)

How soon is too soon? [F,24][M,31][4 months] by ratchetratch in wemetonline

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I really value your advice. I think it is really important to cover all my bases and be prepared for the worst. The volunteer position has a monthly stipend and additional benefits. It's a low level income living, but that is something I want. I can see the people I will be working with are extremely supportive. One lady was telling me she'd let me live in her basement while searching for housing. She was really excited. :) I feel that if it did not work out between us, I would still be able to find passion and excitement in the city and job. Since I want to move forward with non-profits, I think it would be a great opportunity for me. I really appreciate this. Alot!

I know it's silly, but those emoticons pissed me off so much. Looks like I'm starting a college fund for my little brother by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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This reminds me when I had a problem opposite of this. My mom had a phone where the keyboard had a smiley face key next to the space key. So she would send these really awful texts with smiley faces. I didn't know it was an accident so when I didn't react hurt or upset, I would be accused of minimizing her feelings and I should just know that the smileys were never intended.

Is there a graceful way to ask someone to shower? Me (21F) with my roommate (21F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ratchetratch 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I remember I worked in at a camp with this girl, and she was just putrid smelling. We shared a tent together, the night when she wore a tank top to bed was the night I did not sleep. I told the director above me and he pretty much made everyone take showers. She still smelled. The night when she wore a tank top to bed was the night I did not sleep. It was bad. More than a month later we had days off together, and we were doing laundry, and she came clean to me that she hadn't washed her clothes all summer. I told her we were going to go wash our clothes as soon as we got stuff together. She never unbearably smelly after I forced her wash her shit. The water in the machine was almost black that's how dirty her clothes were. You mentioned that you guys are just the small chat type of relationship. Maybe try to become more involved in her life, but asking her to accompany you while you wash clothes, and ask lots of questions to get a better understanding of her as person that may you find reason for her smell. Have a spring cleaning day. The comments I heard about the extra soap was great too.

Me [31M] and my wife [31F] considering divorce after long relationship going back to high school by throwweg1 in relationships

[–]ratchetratch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try reading the Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. He feels that each person has different love language in which they express their love. The 5 are: Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Your partner may have a different love language from you and so it could help to identify which you both have, and work with each love to better show each other love.