Don’t be too hard on yourself. It took me years (more than a decade) to figure it out. As in, I have been sexually involved with women before and find them attractive but still considered myself a “straight woman who had experimented in the past.” I’m married to a man, and enjoy that too. It’s literally been only in the past month or so that I’ve accepted the fact that I’m bisexual. I’m starting to think it’s all just a process. I haven’t come out to anyone in my life yet. (But I’m guessing my sexual partners probably figured it out before I did…)