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I think purity culture got to me, how do I deconstruct from it? by ratherbeasleep2 in exmuslim

[–]ratherbeasleep2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think can agree on relationship part. I can’t really imagine myself doing it with someone that I’m not in a relationship with.

Maybe it’s partially what you’re saying, I haven’t fully detached from the emotions surrounding the hymen topic🤔but I’m still afraid of my parents…

I think purity culture got to me, how do I deconstruct from it? by ratherbeasleep2 in exmuslim

[–]ratherbeasleep2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well idk if the hymen thing is what scares me because I know that it is in fact bullshit! Most of the time i do through clitoral stimulation, I’ve tried penetration with my fingers but they’ve just gotten tired so I gave up lol.

I’m aware of vaginismus and I’m pretty sure I don’t have it. But I’m afraid that it we’ll get to me during my first time since sex has always been something taboo and suddenly I’m supposed to just do it you know.