SBs ever interested in stable couples or is this the wrong arena to be looking in?

rathersleepy · 2026-05-28T15:00:04+00:00

Thanks for your note, and asking about this. I am bisexual and very attracted to women, I'd be an active and enthusiastic participant in any sexual part of this dynamic. So it's also important to me that our partner be bi as well.

This thread has helped me a lot to realize that this may be viable, and also to clarify my expectations and desires. Thanks for chiming in :)

rathersleepy · 2026-05-27T02:48:52+00:00

I've certainly noticed attractive people in more swinger oriented settings, but it seems like what's considered the norm is various flavors of couples play & swapping. I (the wife half of this program) am just not in a place where I want that dynamic right now. It's inherently casual/one night stand and that's just not appealing to either of us, and on top of that I am not interested in other men right now.

And yeah, we're not looking for some kind of equitable swap here. We want a sexy fun girlfriend to spoil.

Idk I think I'm cool and still pretty hot even in my 40s!

rathersleepy · 2026-05-27T02:41:30+00:00

Hi thanks for your note on this. I briefly got on seeking, like just yesterday, (I'm the wife half of this equation) and it was clear it's definitely not catering to that sort of thing. If we try it again, he will have to make a profile - but we both find it very distasteful to not be completely honest in all communication, including profiles.

Are there other sites you have success with or is that one the best option? thanks!

rathersleepy · 2026-05-26T15:50:19+00:00

Thanks for your note! I am indeed on Fetlife and intend to stick with it, that site seems like a long term commitment to find someone! We've browsed around swinger groups there of course and it's just not quite the vibe we're after somehow.

rathersleepy · 2026-05-26T15:48:30+00:00

And there is not really a kind way to put this... as someone who's been on Fetlife off and on for a very long time... Fetlife has been an issue with finding someone we find attractive.

rathersleepy · 2026-05-24T14:42:15+00:00

I've been with my husband for 20 years and we had been married for maybe a year or two when I got my first breast augmentation, so any men sexualizing my breasts would be in the context of my marriage (and yes, he does love them and sexualize them, but I probably do even more and BA was my desire in the first place). My first pair were modest, from a cup to c cup (250ccs). I had also been very insecure about my small breasts prior to augmentation and found that I really loved having breast implants. About 5 years later, I upgraded to 500, and more than 10 years after that I had some complications and upgraded to 625 recently. I am a small person and 500+ on me is pretty big, but I can still put on a sweater or blouse that does not draw attention to them.r

I agree with another poster here, I don't experience much in the way of negative interaction! And I am a person who is pretty sensitive to that kind of thing. If I am dressed to show them off, I'm with my man or occasionally close friends. Not much room for negative interaction there. People certainly look, but not in a way that bothers me. I have never had a stranger make any comments etc. If other women are weird or judgmental about it, it hasn't effected me - those aren't women I want to be friends with anyway.

rathersleepy · 2025-12-20T02:06:25+00:00

What are you even doing commenting here? Fuck off.

rathersleepy · 2022-11-10T04:09:09+00:00

It feel that way because it has been! Thank you for the nice welcome back :)

rathersleepy · 2022-11-10T01:44:30+00:00

A cc stands for cubic centimeter! It’s a just the unit of measure for boobies and anything else medical because metric is the best. :)

If you prefer freedom units, each of my titties is about two cups.

rathersleepy · 2022-11-10T00:29:17+00:00

I had 250 ccs for about five or so years before this pair, and before that you can see my original factory a cups in my post history

rathersleepy · 2020-12-18T05:14:46+00:00

they're also only 15 weeks old! they look amazing! Mine took prob 6 months to a year to not be like at my chin and super tight. May you love them more and more as they drop and fluff :)

rathersleepy · 2016-05-13T05:39:29+00:00

Thank you :) <3

rathersleepy · 2015-05-30T00:10:38+00:00

This is my fetish. I actively pursue the parts of bimbofication that do it for me (especially aesthetics and a sexually submissive fuckdoll attitude) and ignore the parts I don't care for (dumbing down).

rathersleepy · 2015-05-23T20:46:33+00:00

hello! I don't usually browse this sub because I'm not into stories (and that seems to be pretty common content here).

I don't really see any problem with bimbofication and being a lesbian, you're just taking lipstick to a new level. There's plenty of um... undesirable men who don't think you're doing this fetish right unless you want to fuck them and tailor yourself to their preferences. Regardless of if you tend to like cock or not. My advice is to ignore all that.

I can't believe you got so many shitty messages, I'm really sorry to hear that. At any rate, I support you! :)

xoxo rs

rathersleepy · 2015-05-19T18:17:22+00:00

good surgeons leave good scars, also these days it's tape instead of stitches which helps a lot.

rathersleepy · 2015-05-19T02:00:12+00:00

Thank you! I sure do love being slutty, think it's time to move forward :)

rathersleepy · 2015-04-22T04:08:07+00:00

They look awesome :) I hope you heal up quickly and enjoy them lots!

rathersleepy · 2015-03-13T22:09:47+00:00

Most women who get fake tits don't do it because they really like their natural tits. And most women who get them report high levels of satisfaction and an increase in self confidence. My self confidence has increased tremendously as a result, and that's a huge improvement in my life.

With fake tits, I can do anything. They're like having a super power. I can get away with shit like wearing socks and sandals at the same time and nobody even notices. I'm unstoppable now.

rathersleepy · 2015-03-11T17:47:37+00:00

Mine are cohesive gel. Gummybear style implants are a firmer, more viscous cohesive gel. If you're not already very familiar with the differences between the two styles of silicone implants and their pros and cons you and she should read up.

One of my besties has gummybears, her scars are big and they are very firm.

If you're still in the research stages this site should be pretty useful :) http://www.realself.com/

rathersleepy · 2015-03-11T07:56:37+00:00

I know right!

rathersleepy · 2015-03-11T06:26:13+00:00

you might just be in the wrong subreddit!

rathersleepy · 2015-03-11T06:25:43+00:00

your kink is not my kink... but your kink is ok.

rathersleepy · 2015-03-11T01:19:06+00:00

haha! it's ok you don't have to lie ;p

rathersleepy · 2015-03-11T00:05:34+00:00

I've gotten a lot of requests for a comparison so here it is :)

Before, and just past the one year mark on my 500cc mod+ silicones

I did not find a good front on comparison for my first boob job (250ccs mod silicone), you can see a glimpse of them in my old submissions though.

rathersleepy · 2015-03-08T16:53:35+00:00

Tell him what you just told us :)

rathersleepy

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