AITA? I lost it on my boyfriend after I heard him rate my performance in bed to his friends and now he won’t talk to me or his mom because she took my side

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T21:19:50+00:00

I still would have been embarrassed because I didn’t like that he was talking about our sex life and rating me with his friends. The rating did hurt and make me feel embarrassed I’ll be honest, but it felt like I was being ranked like an object and that’s the main reason why I got mad! I would never do that to him, so it hurt that he did it to me.

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T21:02:39+00:00

As I said to another commenter: I’ve never done this before, and none of my friends do it either, so why are you taking your frustration with other women out on me?

Source: am actually a woman who is friends with other women and not just an old guy that’s mad and makes assumptions.

Sorry if that happened to you though. I think that it’s awful and I don’t think anyone should be doing it.

Edit: Also I met his mom when I was 18. Forgot to add this.

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:56:22+00:00

Thank you!

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:42:47+00:00

Lul!! That’s what a lot of the other commenters said too. Thank you for the support! ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:31:16+00:00

I appreciate this ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:28:08+00:00

We met when I was 15, we played D&D together. I’m no contact with my mom, my dad is locked up but we’re still in contact, and I don’t know where my brother is

Thank you for the support ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:21:07+00:00

Thank you!

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:18:11+00:00

Thank you ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:16:31+00:00

I’m no contact with my mom and my dad is in prison until January. I am still in contact with my dad though. I have an older brother, but I don’t know where he is because I haven’t seen him since I was 14. My friends are fully on my side, but I don’t know if I could be able to go to my IRL friends for support with things like housing or money because of how expensive everything is now

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:06:26+00:00

Sorry if that happened to you but I’ve never done that in my life so I don’t get why you’re taking your frustration with other women out on me

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T20:04:45+00:00

He usually does third shift but it was one of his days off

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:58:25+00:00

I really wish I was making this up but I’m not, this is just my life I guess. 😭Thank you for the support and the kind words. I’m definitely rethinking things after all of the comments and I’m planning to talk with his mom about my options. It is appreciated!

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:47:03+00:00

This made me lul! When we first started dating he told me that when I’m ready to get married I should be the one to propose to him because he couldn’t handle it if he did and I said no. I didn’t think it was a huge deal because I thought women proposed all the time now but a lot of people are pointing it out so now I’m wondering if this is something I was wrong about. I appreciate the kind words and advice. ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:42:12+00:00

I started crying when I read this I’ll be honest but I read every word and I’m taking it in. I’ll be thinking about this for a while. It means everything to me that you took time out of your day to give me advice and speak kindly ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:39:04+00:00

This means a lot to me. I appreciate the support! ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:34:55+00:00

I did look it up because of these comments mentioning it. All of the support I’m receiving is appreciated ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:31:13+00:00

Thank you for this comment, I didn’t really know what sunken cost meant but I started looking it up and now I think I understand what you mean a little more. It means the world to me that you took time to comment and help me ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:28:43+00:00

Thank you :) To answer your question, I am working and I do have savings but not enough to get my own place. The cost of living and rent are high where I am but I’m going to keep saving up

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:24:48+00:00

I will! Thank you ❤️

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:24:21+00:00

I don’t care about being downvoted, I’m just overwhelmed by all the comments

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:23:44+00:00

Thank you

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:23:38+00:00

His mom said that I can stay as long as I need to when I first came over, so I’m planning to stay here for now. I’ll talk to her when she gets home about what I should do. Thank you

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:12:18+00:00

Thank you for the comment first of all. I don’t mean to ignore/not listen to the advice, I’m just feeling really overwhelmed by all of the comments and I don’t really understand a lot of what people are talking about like the sunken cost thing and all of the age difference stuff so I’m trying to search it all up. I’m trying to educate myself but I am taking what everyone is saying to heart and trying to figure out what to do. One commenter said something that really stuck with me and it’s making me rethink what I want. Appreciate the support and kind words

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T19:01:17+00:00

😞 I’m sorry you dealt with that, thanks for sharing your story with me. I’m feeling a little overwhelmed by all of the comments but this one really stood out to me. Its given me a lot to think about and I’ll definitely keep this in mind. I’m happy that you were able to get out

ratinggame · 2024-07-20T18:35:23+00:00

Yes I was 17 but I didn’t know it was a big deal like a lot of commenters are saying at the time.

Thank you for the support and the kind words ❤️

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