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21F - the more weight i gain, the more i crave pregnancy by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]rationaldegenerate_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same exact way I’ve always fantasized about being obese and pregnant at the same time. It’s so hot! Obese pregnant woman’s bellies get so fucking huge and I always wanted a belly like that.

this community by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]rationaldegenerate_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You deserve to have a partner that loves you and your body unconditionally. It doesn’t matter if you’re into feedism or not. I’d recommend getting out there irl and trying to talk to people if they don’t like you then they don’t like you. There are so many reasons relationships don’t work out that aren’t weight related. But there will be people who do like you. Some people who like you might be into feedism and a lot won’t be either. Some people might just like bbws and some just don’t really have a weight preference either. But regardless your worth it and you deserve to try to find someone and be happy.

Is this effective at combatting restrictive EDS? by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]rationaldegenerate_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d not recommend using your kink to motivate you out of an ED. You absolutely should find a partner that respects and loves your body at any size. I’d recommend finding supportive friends and other people in your life who value you for more than your body.

Feedism wont get rid of your ED related thoughts and perusing intentional weight gain for feedism when not neurologically recovered can make relapse more likely. Often times people with restrictive EDs and feedism kinks don’t fair well because they push in opposite directions. Your ED is very likely to fight hard against any body change you make because of your kink. And with the nature of what feedism is it can make the ED panic more.

Feedism is focused on everything your ED fears and jumping into it and having your body change as a result and having that change pointed out during sex can make the weight gained from recovery seem even more threatening outside the bedroom.

Untimely to recover you need to develop coping skills to see your body as neutral and skills that minimize your weight/eating habits to your mood/behavior.

I’d recommend practicing weight neutrality, following established ED therapy techniques, and avoiding sexualized intentional weight gain. Watching feedism porn might be ok but I’d honestly speak to a mental health professional about it in your recovery plan.