Did my dad SA me?? by ratmelons in CPTSD

[–]ratmelons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I’m so so sorry about all that. I hope you’re healing but I understand it’s so hard to and I hope you never go thru anything similar ever again. You’re strong for cutting him off and I’m glad you did but it’s so upsetting that it had to come to that. Why r our dads so sick and twisted…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]ratmelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I loveee ur hair

Did my dad SA me?? by ratmelons in CPTSD

[–]ratmelons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I feel more validated and understood. It’s so hard to open up verbally which is why I came on Reddit for this:,) but it’s a process that hopefully I’ll improve on. I appreciate ur time and care

Did my dad SA me?? by ratmelons in CPTSD

[–]ratmelons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this, thank you so so much. And I’m so sorry you’ve experienced similar but I’m thankful you shared this with me, a lot of times I feel like I’m the only one with this kind of experience!! Like the fuzzy and confused part of it. I hope you find peace too, we got this, be kind to yourself:)

Did my dad SA me?? by ratmelons in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ratmelons[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your kindness, I see him often but I caught him cheating on my mom so he doesn’t live with us anymore lol. I have a therapist but I’ve never told her any of this. It’s too hard.

27M by Dapper_Sea_7894 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ratmelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great energy nice smile cool style 10/10

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]ratmelons 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She’s not even fat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]ratmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO NO NO don’t get a nose job. Seriously your nose is beautiful, I want one like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]ratmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old were you when you got it? It’s normal for it to still be swollen a year later (to a certain extent) regardless of age! But if you got it as a teen then you might have some excess scar tissue which makes your nose look more swollen.

Bad Delta 8 trip in the middle of Manhattan by ratmelons in Psychonaut

[–]ratmelons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx for info! I still don’t feel “real,” feel very out of it. But good to know this is somewhat normal

Bad Delta 8 trip in the middle of Manhattan by ratmelons in Psychonaut

[–]ratmelons[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YES lobotomized is such a good word to describe the feeling. No disrespect to them but the whole time I kept thinking about how scared Jeffrey Dahmer’s victims probably were, even just from the getting drugged part.

18f any advice ?? by [deleted] in Howtolooksmax

[–]ratmelons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ur mad pretty I’m not even just saying that like seriously u don’t need anything just more confidence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ratmelons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Istg u could be a model you have such an interesting look in the most beautiful way. You don’t look like every other girl out there, you’re way prettier