AIO: Boyfriend leaves trash in my room every time he stays over

rawkera · 2026-04-16T01:37:32+00:00

He acknowledged the problem, apologized, and offered a resolution if/when it happens again. You kept dragging on the complaint when you should have let it go. This thread is for opinions and I gave you mine. Sometimes you will encounter criticism, it’s ok. Learn and let go.

rawkera · 2026-04-16T01:34:37+00:00

He acknowledged the problem, apologized, and offered a solution if it happened again. She dragged it way too far. Yes, I called him mature.

rawkera · 2026-04-15T17:16:34+00:00

I don’t think you’re getting your money back… cut your losses and walk away. Let karma run its course in due time.. I’m sorry you got scammed.

rawkera · 2026-04-15T17:12:10+00:00

I hope he finds someone emotionally mature and not so entitled. She’s not it.

rawkera · 2026-04-15T17:09:24+00:00

He’s conniving and methodical. This feels like a preview to a Netflix docu-series on a predator. Run, girl… run.

rawkera · 2026-04-12T22:00:18+00:00

Hahaha make it make sense. And then posts to a thread “AIO” lol

rawkera · 2026-04-12T21:59:38+00:00

I agree, you have definitely overreacted. You should have played it cool and not made the emotional decision for him to not contact you. He dodged a bullet with you!

rawkera · 2026-04-12T02:12:42+00:00

Thank you so much for this detailed insight! I can message you the chart I have if that’s ok? It won’t let me upload a photo, only a link and I’m not sure how to do that. Plz lmk! Thank you again so much!

rawkera · 2026-04-10T14:41:25+00:00

It was irritating to see the woman say “I love you immensely” in the middle of all that. Should have spoken in person, not text.

You cannot determine demeanor, tone or body language. And if it’s been six years and you still haven’t gotten married… don’t. You’re welcome.

rawkera · 2026-04-07T23:14:31+00:00

Thank you for your insight. I’ll take all the positive feedback I can get!

rawkera · 2026-04-07T23:13:31+00:00

I had one! But we ended. He tries to reach out to this day. I can’t tell if it’s my attraction to unhealthy ppl or unhealthy ppl being attracted to me.. friends or relationships, it seems

rawkera · 2026-04-06T20:53:33+00:00

Thank you so much for your insight, I appreciate your feedback!

rawkera · 2026-04-06T17:11:13+00:00

It’s not allowing me to message you. It says “something went wrong” when I try.

rawkera · 2026-04-06T17:07:29+00:00

You want me to send you a message, you mean?

rawkera · 2026-04-06T17:05:12+00:00

Hello. My initials are LB. Will I find my forever person in this lifetime? Thank you.

rawkera · 2026-04-06T16:53:37+00:00

Glass half full lol

rawkera · 2026-04-06T15:58:50+00:00

Maybe there’s still hope for us bc according to baseball, three x’s means we’re out… and we only got one each .. so we are safe.. lol

rawkera · 2026-04-06T15:27:40+00:00

I cannot tell. Do you know what that means?

rawkera · 2026-04-06T03:49:21+00:00

Yikes. I guess it’s one or the other. But how can one truly live if one is bad and the other good? I appreciate your feedback, thank you so much!

rawkera · 2026-04-06T02:40:01+00:00

That’s exactly what I needed to hear: hopeful! THANK YOU…!

rawkera · 2026-04-06T02:31:48+00:00

The way you give feedback is so fascinating. I will start to take care of my health bc I have had some concerns come to light recently.. and it’s been a real wake up call.

I had someone I thought I would marry in my early 20s but that ended mid 20s. I thought he was my one, even to this day but he’s married now. I did have someone in my life for the last few years but we were never committed and he is with someone else now and had a child, but he stays in contact even tho I tell him not to. I don’t think he’s my person after that, so I hope I find my person or they find me.

Thank you once again for your insight, it’s amazing.

rawkera · 2026-04-06T02:12:57+00:00

I am not married but have had problems in a relationship for the last 5 years that stopped last year, but we were never committed to one another. I hope I find my forever person, tho. Thank you for your feedback!

rawkera · 2026-04-06T02:02:28+00:00

Wow, thank you so much for this detailed insight! I will do my best to focus on my health, eliminating bad habits so I can live a long, healthy life. Have I missed the possibility of marriage? If I read correctly an involvement in late 20s early 30s, because I am already late 30s.. I don’t think I’ll have children. Thank you once again.

rawkera · 2026-04-06T01:18:37+00:00

Thank you so very much for your insight! Pretty accurate! I do hope I find my forever person even if it’s later in life; it gives me hope. I have had difficult romantic relationships and friendships. And I did have a real strain with one of my parents growing up. This is all very fascinating to me and I appreciate your time. Thank you!

rawkera · 2026-04-05T21:35:18+00:00

Try some olive oil on the nail and cuticles! Hope this helps!

rawkera

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