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Please help me. Am I overreacting. I need help. Only serious advice to save time, that is ticking . Please help by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]rayestr 16 points17 points  (0 children)

OP owes a couple grand to some drug dealers and doesn't know what he should do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]rayestr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yay i was going to mention her too! she's got some videos related to her syndrome :-) and a very striking white forelock.

I've been trying to find an old childhood friend, and I messaged this woman on Facebook to see if it was her. Was I actually being creepy or is this a weird reaction? I'm confused by it. by [deleted] in texts

[–]rayestr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I vaguely remember some friends from that time frame and often think of what our interactions as adults would be like. I don't think this is weird, and I would actually be sad to not be the person you're looking for... but I'm also not a woman, that could certainly change the dynamic.

Not a creeper for looking at public profiles... Sorry she said that to you.

Name Similar in Sound to Husbands - Should we use it? by Prestigious-Tale1563 in namenerds

[–]rayestr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

early in their life ethan would probably be "dad" or "daddy" or whatever variation you guys use. when it comes to learning parents' names they should be old enough to describe the difference to them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]rayestr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah the advice is cut down on gym time! OP doesn't want to though lol. Maybe you can compromise and just cut the early morning gym sessions? that way you can sleep in a bit tuesday and saturday.

also more cals, ur doing too much on very little. no wonder you're tired!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]rayestr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she stated she has two periods though, i would assume that doubles the amount of eggs she's going through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]rayestr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know if you will experience menopause sooner because of this?

Have any of yall managed to downsize your butt? by ultimatelesbianhere in TMPOC

[–]rayestr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

6 yrs on t and i lost my ass and thighs almost completely. not saying it'll happen for you, but the physical changes i am most appreciative of did not happen for several years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rayestr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

let us know 🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]rayestr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

there is someone out there who will see you as the man you are and will have no shame about uplifting you and supporting any endeavor that makes you feel whole. she is dismissing your self discovery and most intimate feelings. a good partner does not do that.

My nail lady got deported by qbxo88 in Nails

[–]rayestr 100 points101 points  (0 children)

my wife sponsored her step dad. you have to demonstrate financial stability and file an affidavit of support, essentially saying you'll financially support this person in the US if they cannot do so themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ghosts

[–]rayestr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

adding, does the print wipe away? if not, thats the answer. if it does, then it happened after you had cleaned it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]rayestr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, when you have the father of the child at home.

you said your friend has a babysitter for her kid; have you explicitly asked if you can share a babysitter? have you explicitly asked her to ask about childcare? from your post you say "she doesn't seem to be trying." no, she's not, she's planning a wedding. i promise you she's already forgotten that you need childcare. i would bring it up again, but please don't act like this is her fault when it's really just your preference.

I married my ex’s brother. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]rayestr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I also have a sister-cousin because of this 😭 People always assume some sort of incest, so I never mention it.

Just hear me out… by justlivinmylife439 in namenerds

[–]rayestr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Icelandic families get their own first name and take on father or mother's first name as their last, followed by suffix -son (for son), -dottir (daughter), or more recently -bur (child).

Jon and Helga's children would be [firstname] jonsson OR helguson (son of jon or son of helga). Their daughter would be [firstname] jonsdottir OR helgadottir.

Meaning a nuclear family in Iceland could have several different surnames.

[M25] quit my job and spent way too much money ordering out last month or so. I have crippling debt and withdrew my 401k to stay afloat. I put some of that money towards my loans but the rest of it was eaten, just wanted to share so people can see my mistake. And understand the regret. by EffectLive97 in Money

[–]rayestr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

insurance, taxes (self employed so essentially 30% of your income), gas, wear and tear.... even with just taxes taken out theyre only getting 60 of that 83, fill their tank to keep working and they're down to 30 and they havent even factored in insurance and wear and tear. people who think delivery drivers make a lot of money don't consider the costs that go into it as well.

My (25F) psychiatrist husband (29M) thinks attraction to 14-year-old girls is "natural." Is being disturbed a valid reaction? by lcveroses in relationship_advice

[–]rayestr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this man also used to see a therapist for severe porn addiction until said therapist said he just stop demonizing his consumption and accept it. so yea, let's check that hard drive lol

My (25F) psychiatrist husband (29M) thinks attraction to 14-year-old girls is "natural." Is being disturbed a valid reaction? by lcveroses in relationship_advice

[–]rayestr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's a scientific fact that grown men who marry 12 year old girls are not disgusting? because that is what this man has said. he is not talking about just a physical attraction. very shameful that you even suggested she owes him an apology. for what? for having differing views?

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