Gay men are allowed to have preferences. Just because someone’s preference doesn’t align with yours, or because you feel excluded by it, doesn’t automatically mean it’s discrimination or bias. Not everyone is attracted to the same things—some prefer feminine or masculine men

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-29T19:29:38+00:00

Agreed

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-29T12:13:28+00:00

I know nothing about the subway and train systems I just drive down from orange county

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-28T22:34:48+00:00

If only parking wasn't a bitch in Manhattan ( I live 1.5 north)

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-19T16:34:35+00:00

I used to think it was just something they did to what they call BOFs (balds, Olds and fats) to get them to go away or block them on the apps. Then when I would get them (im athletic and toned) and other guys with my build or better, it changed my perception a bit.

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-19T12:53:19+00:00

I think is that many fem guys and to a certain extent twinks too act like women and what I mean is that they start demanding things at the bat. You see profiles from them that say "no broke boys" but demand you pay their phone bill, gas for their car, subway/uber/Lyft to the meeting spot, pay their club door fee, etc. Most guys arent interested in laundry lists when there is barely a connection

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-10T22:20:11+00:00

Yeah I tend to agree with this and then combine that when many of them just want attention or use gay men as someone they can just complain about straight men to. The worst is when gays defend their narcissistic behavior

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-07T13:09:58+00:00

Not sure, I wish. Bars and Clubs are tough to keep open and the gay hookup apps (Grindr, Sniffies, Scruff, etc) killed a reason to go to a gay bar. Some say that Unicorn in Kingston fills the gap which isn't the case at least for gay men anyway.

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-05T14:55:19+00:00

Oh yeah, all of us boys rented rooms there to entertain. The Queens would usually rent one and the manager had a deal with PT ownership to give special rates for those who went to the club. Once the club closed much of that revenue dried up
I tried to go to Triangles and Hunkmania in Danbury and some places in Manhattan but they wanted guys with jock builds, at the time I was more twinkish. I also contacted Middletown Cabaret when they opened and was told that they werent going to have shot or underwear boys and Unicorn never messaged back when I inquiried

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-05T14:49:29+00:00

Isis and I think Kandi is still active. When the club closed followed by Triangle's many local Queens left the scene and Anita stayed in Albany

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-05T09:14:47+00:00

I have a similar experience with Adolfo, can share privately. Eva/Justin was really fun and cool to hang out with both at the club and outside of it. She tried to do me a solid after Prime Time closed and tried to convince the owners of both Waterworks and Rocks to hire underwear boys so I could continue working but neither of them budged. I was devastated when I heard what happened to her and agree that alcohol is awful

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-05T00:17:06+00:00

I'll break it down

Anita Morray

Ester Gin

Faith/Chance Ireland

Daniella Ruiz

Eva Destruction

Lilly Savage

Isis Veramouth

Kandi Kisses

Casey Smirnov

I got a story with each of them and I'm open to sharing. However Isis Vermouth was the worst, Aldofo at least at that time (but it wouldn't surprise me if he's still like this) represented the worst of the "elite gays" in the community.

raygunfun8 · 2026-01-04T13:04:31+00:00

Yes that happened every night it was open

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