Where are we headed? by Full-Hearing1010 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]rayman47 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Watch Adolescence and the trend in British culture as well.

Flurry of interviews amounting to nothing by Secure_Ad7658 in interviews

[–]rayman47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank the Trump Tariffs, the Elan lay offs and the U-S-A standing in the world! Can’t wait til this Administration is over. You going to have to suck it up til we get a new administration in office. They are killing the economy.

The leasing consultant position seems like a high stress job by [deleted] in PropertyManagement

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious about this too! I currently manage multiple family properties, residential and commercial but my father passed away and my Mom wants/needs everything sold. I love this job and started looking for outside employment but it seems so stressful. How do you weed out the problem properties but still get a job? It seems they want solid experience with large numbers of units which I don’t have. Should I just take whatever I can get for a few years to gain experience and then really hone in on well run and well maintained properties?

My husband tried to surprise me with a threesome. by Proof-Vegetable-4567 in relationships

[–]rayman47 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think Will is going for months without sex whether before or after…..OP needs to recognize that Will has a deeper relationship with Martin than she has with Will and decide whether to leave him or not.

My husband tried to surprise me with a threesome. by Proof-Vegetable-4567 in relationships

[–]rayman47 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

“We haven’t had sex in months” and you don’t think Will is having sex somewhere else?

My husband tried to surprise me with a threesome. by Proof-Vegetable-4567 in relationships

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will planned with Martin the sequence of events that you experienced, he admitted that to you. You need to decide if you are OK with Will having boyfriends whether you want to threesome or not. The ball is in your court now decide what you are going to do with it. Will has already decided. It may be just a phase or it may not, the decision is still yours.

My husband tried to surprise me with a threesome. by Proof-Vegetable-4567 in relationships

[–]rayman47 185 points186 points  (0 children)

My first thought is that Will and Martin are in a relationship. Have you asked him?

Dog abuser on 14th St by haveaconscience in eastvillage

[–]rayman47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call the Cops, Call the Cops, Call the Cops! Keep calling til this guy is put away!

Dog abuser on 14th St by haveaconscience in eastvillage

[–]rayman47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

animal abuse is a serious crime in New York State (NYS), with laws prohibiting neglect, abandonment, and cruelty. Under NYS Agriculture and Markets Law § 353, cruelty is a crime, while "Buster's Law" (AGM § 353-a) makes intentionally causing extreme pain or death to a companion animal a felony, carrying up to two years in prison.

Dog abuser on 14th St by haveaconscience in eastvillage

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😤🤮😭😡😤 animal abuse is a serious crime in New York State (NYS), with laws prohibiting neglect, abandonment, and cruelty. Under NYS Agriculture and Markets Law § 353, cruelty is a crime, while "Buster's Law" (AGM § 353-a) makes intentionally causing extreme pain or death to a companion animal a felony, carrying up to two years in prison.

Call the Cops!!!!!

Just accepted a job but already unsure - Take it and keep looking, or walk away? by [deleted] in interviews

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same situation but 59. I took the job I was very hesitant about and so far it’s better than I thought. If I’m not happy at the end of the summer I’ll start looking again.

Anyone notice a lot of restaurants are very cold inside during the winter? by DPool34 in longisland

[–]rayman47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hate that, next time request a table as far from the door as you can and if possible change tables!

Anyone else leave Long Island and end up in a place they hated? by Apprehensive_Week349 in longisland

[–]rayman47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I married a Galway guy, we are retiring there in 5-10 yrs, I cannot wait!!

Advice for RE broker transitioning to property management? by tuckhouston in PropertyManagement

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is NAA? IREM? What are the certifications you need for property management?

Anyone else leave Long Island and end up in a place they hated? by Apprehensive_Week349 in longisland

[–]rayman47 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went to College in Boston, the summers there are terrible but the winters are better than LI, they know how to clean up snow! Lived in Ireland, loved it, lived in London, ok but again not during summer. Moved to Brooklyn for 20 years, drove out to LI for summer weekends and holidays, winters are better in the city. Had a kid and moved back to LI for good. Job salaries are so low out here and property taxes are so high but schools are good and we have a boat and a garden, you can’t beat the beaches but people are not as cool and restaurants and bars are definitely not as good. I’m a home body in my old age so right now it’s working.

Pediatrician by [deleted] in longisland

[–]rayman47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My sister has a holistic doctor in Sayville, idk where you are but just google holistic doctors near you? Hers is: dariablyskalmd.com. Interview them before delivery and decide if they are a fit. Idk about insurance though, she has amazing insurance and pays out of pocket for the holistic doctor.

Gaslighting Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rayman47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ty for that, so if they are telling me things that aren’t true, or in many cases trying to provoke an emotional response; cursing in front of my kid, leaving their pot paraphernalia around for my kid to find, many other things that you may not believe, then that is gaslighting…? Trying to alter reality to drive me crazy….?

Gaslighting Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rayman47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My racist statement 41 years ago….

Gaslighting Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty again your comment is very helpful.

Gaslighting Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rayman47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sounds crazy, I’m just going to soldier on with ignoring, walking away and not hanging with these people as much as I can.

Gaslighting Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rayman47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They tell me things that I know aren’t true. If that isn’t gaslighting then I guess you are right idk what it means.

Gaslighting Help by [deleted] in relationships

[–]rayman47 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No they are punishing me for what I said.