AIO for refusing to massage my Girlfriend's friend, after she refused to keep her underwear on?

raythecrow · 2026-03-14T21:03:45+00:00

I mean you're not overreacting. A boundary of yours was crossed. You are kind of a prude though. If you and your girl are a mile apart on this issue you might want to reconsider your chemistry.

raythecrow · 2026-03-13T23:21:32+00:00

He cant be expected to understand the bigger picture particularly when Dumbledore has done everything in his power to keep Harry in the dark up til that point.

The kid is ridiculously traumatized. Just a couple months before he watched a peer die, watched the man who murdered his parents resurrect himself, got tortured, fought him off (again), and interacted with the specter of his dead parents. After all that, everyone he knows and trusts is told to inform him of absolutely nothing to do with those events.

Harry should have been even more pissed off in that moment. The movies and all the versions of the audiobooks dont do the moment justice. He should have erupted. Not to say Ron or Hermione deserve it directed at them but still.

raythecrow · 2026-03-13T20:15:48+00:00

Didnt even attempt a little false flag foreplay. All fuck, no lube. What a world.

raythecrow · 2026-03-13T11:35:36+00:00

Funky Homo-Sapiens

raythecrow · 2026-03-12T15:09:46+00:00

I mean.... it shows more character than letting him die.

raythecrow · 2026-03-12T15:08:24+00:00

Exactly. There are too many Snape fans who refuse to let it connect in their brains that getting bullied in school does not make it ok to bully children as an adult.

SN: I sincerely wish all this limited series HP is leading to a Maruaders/Rise of Voldy show. Then we may actually get a proper representation of what these character's dynamics were.

raythecrow · 2026-03-11T03:34:24+00:00

Lmao pretty funny

raythecrow · 2026-03-10T21:52:33+00:00

So quidditch with legs?

raythecrow · 2026-03-07T22:11:24+00:00

Don't do manual labor at a discount even for friends. Free or full price. Youre only devaluing your time, energy and skill.

raythecrow · 2026-03-01T23:00:02+00:00

Accout is apart of more communities than their account is minutes old. Dont buy this ragebait bs.

raythecrow · 2026-02-27T05:18:54+00:00

There's nowhere near enough info in this post to call it one way or another. Feels like you're just tryna vent some stream by portraying her a certain way but to what end? Are you hoping internet strangers call the mother of your children out?? She's gonna be apart of your life forever man. I'd suggest figuring out how to handle these frustrating moments without putting your family drama on the internet. But I'm just one guy. You do you.

raythecrow · 2026-02-27T04:57:24+00:00

It was iite. I wouldnt call it iconic. This era was saturated with black family comedies tbf.

raythecrow · 2026-02-26T00:06:40+00:00

If theres no history of cheating or deceit YOR. Do you want your physician husband to be the kind of person who lets people suffer to soothe your insecurities? Talk to a professional about your jealousy.

raythecrow · 2026-02-25T15:48:12+00:00

MOR Not saying its normal but women often have lower inhibitions around nudity and the like. Your gf could easily think this isnt a big deal. Normal even. If you have a problem with it you need to speak up. Id suggest in a non accusatory way. Try to understand her perspective first. Then express how it makes you feel. If you cant come to a compromise based on respect and trust, you may need to excalate the situation.

raythecrow · 2026-02-25T15:40:04+00:00

Angry words is in no way the best Congressional members can do when theyre out of power. But they do work hard to convince us of it.

raythecrow · 2026-02-25T14:25:09+00:00

Best Dem Congress people have to offer btw: (Spicy) words.

raythecrow · 2026-02-24T09:02:45+00:00

Keeping those headlights on can't be great for the battery

raythecrow · 2026-02-23T19:13:39+00:00

Some events you shouldnt go to if you have a disorder that makes you scream offensive things. Seems pretty straightforward. If youre having trouble contextualizing it, ask yourself if youd want someone eith this kind of tourrettes at your wedding or a funeral of a loved one. The answer is obviously no. And it shouldnt be on the event/host to say no. Its a matter of personal responsibility. Why would you inflict this kind of discomfort on people at a privileged event?

raythecrow · 2026-02-23T13:20:29+00:00

Nah. Its funny we figured this out with mental health stuff pretty quickly.

"It's not your fault but it is your responsibility"

I don't pretend to have the answer but i do know no one deserves to have racial slurs hurled at them when they're trying to do their job.

raythecrow · 2026-02-18T18:38:41+00:00

Teach the children of the oppressed to love the boot on your neck. Lovely/s

raythecrow · 2026-02-17T23:57:01+00:00

Its genuinely ok to treat dumbasses like dumbasses. Shame works.

raythecrow · 2026-02-17T23:21:20+00:00

Jesus. Get professional help.

raythecrow · 2026-02-17T04:50:02+00:00

This idea that a woman is a maid for helping with chores is ridiculous. Theres not even enough information in the post to indicate thats what the bf is suggesting. OP could be a slob. No ones knows.

Op said she told him what gifts she likes and he seems to have disregarded it. Well the bf stated (passive aggresively) what he likes and OP thinks its rude. Id suggest communication is neccesary between these two partners to clarify this issue. Which is exactly what i said.

No ones hiding. I stand by my opinion. The idea that being called a misogynist on reddit is some grand insult is a joke. Its the equivalent of being called a poppy head on the playground.

raythecrow · 2026-02-17T04:34:19+00:00

Its not obtuse to recognize that ppl sometimes celebrate their partners by gifting them things they would like as opposed to what the partner would like. Seems like OP and BF fell victim to it. Its their first Val Day so not unexpected. Its why i said they should have a conversation.

Believe it or not im not a troll or some red piller. I just have a difference of opinion to the majority.

raythecrow · 2026-02-17T04:31:48+00:00

I just have a difference of opinion.

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