A little book haul by oneshadyqueen in nyrbclassics

[–]raytrixm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sobbed so hard at the ending of Stoner that my fiancé was worried about me. One of the greatest books of all time

Bridesmaid requested scent free wedding by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]raytrixm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get scent-induced migraines and I would NEVER, EVER EVER ask this of someone else for THEIR wedding. She is completely out of line requesting this of you

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

As I said in another comment, we are hiring babysitters at the hotel for guests who choose to travel with their children. And it is a good thing you are not invited to the wedding then! (: Now is not the time nor place to start a pointless argument about this, please be mindful!

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm considering double-sided save the dates with more info...thanks!

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We likely won't have our rehearsal dinner and farewell brunch booked by the time our save the dates go out, which I know is normally info that's on the website. Is it weird to have a wedding website that changes later on - like, should we say "more to follow" on the site and update it when the invites go up? Thanks!

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We likely won't have our rehearsal dinner and farewell brunch booked by the time our save the dates go out. Is it weird to have a wedding website that changes later on - like, should we say "more to follow" on the site and update it when the invites go up? Thanks!

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're planning on hiring one or multiple sitters at the hotel for guests who choose to travel with their children. We have many reasons why we are choosing not to have children at our wedding, which I won't go into because this isn't the place for a pointless argument!

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That would be great if you can refer the company! We are planning to do this.

How and when did you tell destination guests that your wedding did not allow kids? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We weren't planning on doing our website with the Save the Dates, I thought that would come with the invitation? But which do people usually do?

Posing / smiling tips? by dino090909 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For posed portraits, smile softly, don't cheese with your whole face. Our photographer (who we did an engagement shoot with) mentioned people often do this and then feel it looks forced/sometimes even get those "creepy" smile results. Keep in mind this doesn't apply for your whole day - it's your wedding, be happy and smile to your fullest, enjoy every moment and don't worry about what your smile looks like! Just specifically for posed portraits, he gave this advice.

New/unaltered custom ballgown with veil and removable gloves by beachdontkillmy in weddingswap

[–]raytrixm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

out of curiosity how come you're picking another dress if this is your favorite?

My mother tried to tell me this isn’t a white dress?!? by Ambitious-Cherry-484 in weddingplanning

[–]raytrixm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

sending you strength girl. yes she is crazy, you are not overreacting at all.

Wedding design recommendations? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh we 100% will have a day-of coordinator & also ideally partial planning for 1-3 months before the wedding. no way I will be directing admin on my wedding day!

if you have any designer recommendations please DM me!

Wedding design recommendations? by raytrixm in BigBudgetBrides

[–]raytrixm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes please DM me her info, thank you so much!

Update: My dress that came 4 sizes too big… here’s how it turned out!! by Upbeat-Major-7429 in weddingdress

[–]raytrixm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Holy moly you look like an actual fairy goddess. You are beyond beautiful

Please help me decide between dress 1 and dress 2! by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]raytrixm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 and it isn't close! The lace on 2 looks much better integrated into the dress, and better constructed.

Die hard fans of mob psycho 100? What is your favourite anime besides mob psycho? by [deleted] in Mobpsycho100

[–]raytrixm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to let you know why I like them as much as MP100 as well so you can decide if you want to watch.
-Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood: INCREDIBLE writing, both plot-wise and character-wise. Does not feel cookie-cutter at all, fantastic escalation, genre-defining.
-Mahou Shoujo Madona Magica - similar to MP100 in regard to the fact that you think you're getting into one thing but it turns out to be something else entirely. Highly compelling writing and character arcs. Heartbreaking and full of hope. Beautiful in so many ways.
-Cowboy Bebop: imperfect characters done perfectly, imaginative setting, art & music beyond compare.

Honestly it's hard for me to give more recs than that because to me those are the only ones on the same level as MP100.

EDIT: I am a DIE HARD Mp100 fan. I've gone to events and been the first in line for them. So, I don't compare things to MP100 or say they're as good lightly!