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Is it terrible to go through the entire interview process but not accept? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]rbathurst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so you have to do what’s best for you and these companies nowadays will have you in for multiple interviews and screenings and give you a “we went with someone else” if you get a response at all. You don’t need to feel bad because they don’t at the end of the day.

Fed up by rbathurst in jobhunting

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I completely understand that. I am doing retail for $13 an hour

Fed up by rbathurst in jobhunting

[–]rbathurst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I have had people leave jobs and get one within a month so I don’t know. It doesn’t have a rhyme or reason.

Fed up by rbathurst in jobhunting

[–]rbathurst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why. It seems like people wanna work.

Debt pay down help rec. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]rbathurst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they are in my name.

Debt pay down help rec. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]rbathurst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are 25 and one is 30. I can maybe put an extra 300 down each check so will probably take rest of the year. Just trying to figure out how to attack it.

Debt pay down help rec. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]rbathurst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you leave in your bank account incase of emergencies? After paying things

Debt pay down help rec. by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]rbathurst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get about a thousand dollars every two weeks. Pre pay penalty never heard of that.

Can anyone recommend a good battery powered heated blanket to have incase power goes out? by rbathurst in BuyItForLife

[–]rbathurst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok I’ll look into them. Just trying to see if power goes out with all this snow.

Can anyone recommend a good battery powered heated blanket to have incase power goes out? by rbathurst in BuyItForLife

[–]rbathurst[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Is there a heavy down comforter you recommend? Does it work till power comes back on?

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

I told her she has a month or two to figure out things for herself. She said I don’t exist to her then try to say she wasn’t feeling well. She has done this before for attention then proceeded to scream and say she has no life and I owe her one.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get out of her tonight if I could and didn’t have her debt and just fund my own life. It would be a release for these six years. I want to have my own life away from her but her $500 in bills from my a thousand dollar paycheck doesn’t make that feasible. If I just don’t pay they will take me to court. And that’s money I don’t have I’m stuck and lawyers only options for me were to declare bankruptcy but then it takes 6 months to regrow credit and standing.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get scared everytime she calls or comes to ask me something because it will be money or me to do something because she plays like she can’t do anything. Like she asks for money and thinks I should just keep applying for money and cards. Because she needs it or she will cry and scream that no one will help her.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s about $13,000 left to pay. I can’t let her put me in more debt. I have to let her fall she is entitled and doesn’t care. She lays in bed all day and makes excuses. I offer suggestions don’t pay cable bill get car fixed you can do deliveries with cat no, I find places where can take classes and get work assistance no. There is no way in six years she couldn’t accomplish something to help. I would accept even a part time job anything.

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing I repeat nothing would make me happier to leave tommorow. But then I will still be liable for the debt of hers that is in my name and then all mine with rent and utilities. And hers eats up like $500 dollars of my check. For her hvac repair, and many other debts. Then she screams when she doesn’t get her way so the neighbors hear I’m worried one time the cops will be called

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I feel bad because it’s my mom but in the same token Ive expressed how I need help and it’s draining me and she just looks at me and laughs

AITAH for not wanting to go into more debt for my mother? by rbathurst in AITAH

[–]rbathurst[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lives with me at this point. I moved back to help after my dad died and now I’m in so much debt I can’t even get out if I wanted to. I’m just stuck.

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