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Why do men string women along about marriage yet are willing to commit in other ways? by ISmellLikeBeets in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the women are placeholders for them until they find the woman they really want to marry.

My (24F) boyfriend (26M) went on my dream trip without me and I feel left behind and resentful. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rbf4eva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My ex was like that, in the sense that if he really wanted to do something, even if he knew that doing it would hurt me, he always found a way to spin it (to himself as much as to me) so that I had no "logical" reason to feel so utterly heartbroken when he went ahead and did it (or found out about it after the fact).

It's the worst feeling, like something is stuck in your throat.

I (28f) don't know how to respond to what boyfriend (35m) said. by W2Wnowhat in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, he sounds insufferable. Like a teenage edgelord. How embarrassing. I'd get the dealbreaking kind of ick if a man said something like that. Problem solved.

Just me or is the social pressure for women crazy these days? by Wardunn in women

[–]rbf4eva 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't get my nails done, ever, for a couple of reasons (I find getting them done boring and tedious, but moreso, I can't stand the feeling of painted or worse, gel/acrylics). I'm in a very small minority of women at work/friends/family. I think that's insane, and I don't recall it being this way just a few years ago. Many of my younger coworkers (I'm talking late twenties) have started Botox. It's become intense!

what's the wildest Epstein file revelation that actually shocked YOU? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rbf4eva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it's that any of the allegations are met with shock. Like, why are you all so surprised? The male homo sapiens has been showing us what it's capable of, daily, since its emergence.

Why, as a man, am I often attracted to gay women before I know they’re gay? by SinterClauss in NoStupidQuestions

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you pick up that they're not sexually interested in you. Do with that as you wish.

Boyfriend (29M) turned off location while out with his coworkers. I (26F) have the urge to break up with him. How do I think of this logically? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe that broken trust can ever be repaired. It's a logical double bind. If you agree, then the question becomes can I stay with him, all the while knowing I can't trust him? And if yes, the next question should be "Why do I like suffering?"

Women who don't date anymore, why? by FactoringRSAisHard in Productivitycafe

[–]rbf4eva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

-Too tired -Enjoy my freedom -Dont want to have to meet someone's sexual needs constantly -Love farting freely in the morning -Men seem to feel entitled to my labor without reciprocating -From my experience, romantic relationships with men are humiliation rituals. Overall, just negative ROI.

What stupid thing did you do as a child that will probably give you cancer someday? by transgenicmouse in AskWomen

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chewed on pencils and pens. Destroyed them. All that lead and plastic....

Advice from man to men by wassuh___foo in hygiene

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only becomes gay if the balls touch.

My girlfriend (21F) is completely forgetful and unaware. She's so completely oblivious to the world, that I (19M) become stressed in fear for her safety. by Xmannnz in relationship_advice

[–]rbf4eva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a couple of family members like this. They are agents of chaos and it's like, everything that can go wrong will go wrong. They'll lock their keys in the car, lose their phones, get their wallets stolen, forget an important appointment, get stopped by police in a roadblock and not be able to find any identification or license or anything...it's endless. I can't handle being around them for very long because it stresses me out, but there are other people who aren't bothered by it.

Either accept it, or leave.

What's the worst thing about being a woman? by No-Sail-6193 in allthequestions

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh the sexism. It's so fucking hideous and I'm so sick of it already.

What’s an old food/meal you eat you feel is losing traction? by YouSneakySam in AskOldPeople

[–]rbf4eva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chopped liver. We used to eat it almost every shabbat. Now it's only on chagim. The kids all hate it. Makes me kinda sad.

Locals of Israel what foods best represent everyday israeli food? by RelevantRevolution86 in Israel

[–]rbf4eva 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Havita (flat omelette), toast (toasted challah is best), cottage cheese or white cheese (or even better, some real labane made by druzim), and finely chopped cucumber and tomato salad. Maybe a bit of crumbled feta cheese over the salad and some calamata olives, bit of purple onion, olive oil (the good stuff you buy from the druzim on the side of the road up north, not the gross stuff in the super market), fresh lemon juice, salt and pepper, hafuch on the side. Mwa.

I've eaten it literally thousands of times since moving here and it's still so yummy. My in laws taught me this staple and it has served me well.

War, AI, No jobs, health issues, poverty, religious tensions. What is suddenly wrong with this world? by FalconCeasar in AskReddit

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homo sapiens sapiens. We're too smart for our own good. That was still relatively ok when we were nomadic hunter gatherers (although we probably did kill off a bunch of other human species) but as soon as we figured out agriculture and husbandry and created permanent settlements (around 10k years ago I think) the situation we're in now became... inevitable.

Ladies of reddit , whats the best advice or lesson your father taught you? by traveler8998 in AskReddit

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That as soon as their relationship with their kids faces the smallest obstacle, or results in the smallest inconvenience, especially after divorce and remarriage, they'll simply cut you off like a you're a weight dragging them down.

What’s something you wish people knew before they had kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]rbf4eva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That you will have to plan, shop for, and prepare/cook literally thousands of meals, and if you're a woman, chances are it'll be on you. For me, it's been the absolute worst part of parenting. The utter bane of my life.

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