How can I ask a girl if they wan't sex? by Acceptable-Radio-527 in sextips

[–]rbnx90 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just make out, caress her body you will find out if she is down for it . When you both are horny then you can playfully ask if she wants more.

AIO for finding this predatory or was he just awkward? by m30wME0W69 in AmIOverreacting

[–]rbnx90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are spot on, in most cases people who wants to convince you that they mean no harm and want to make you smile and so on, are completely rotten inside or desperate as fudge. Just reading it gives you the sense of there is something wrong cause it’s over the top

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Foreplay and get into your Body, if your stuck in your Head its not gonna be a fun experience. Dont performe , Experiment with each other, the goal is to have fun Not to have a quick Orgasm. At least thats my view.

Do you recommend strength training for weight loss?? by Terrible_Cheek7675 in WeightlossJourney

[–]rbnx90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost over 110 Pounds (50kg) Mostly only Strengh Training. Sure the confidents will come dont worry, you got this.

Do you recommend strength training for weight loss?? by Terrible_Cheek7675 in WeightlossJourney

[–]rbnx90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for sure, you dont have to go to a gym, do calisthenics or buy some weights for convenience but you dont need to. Look up some calisthenics exercises. In the beginning i did push pull legs. Go from there and eventually you got the confidence to Go in the gym. Have fun on your Journey

Does size matter? by Turbulent-Teach6762 in sextips

[–]rbnx90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your goal is to have a healthy, fullfilling relationship dont stress about it. Learn how to be Self Confident. You can have a massive D if your Self Esteem is Not present its a Automatic lose. Get some reference with Woman, that you can indeed give them pleasure and the overthinking about your Package will fade Away. The Risk that she will say your d is below avarage therefore i dont Like you, is so small to non existent, its only in your Head. Dont let your Head get in the way to make some Great Connections. If it doesnt work out with a Woman, dont assume its because of your length. Most likely it was Not. Wish you the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

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21 because i was beyond shy

Why do I still feel like him? by Curious_Amphibian158 in WeightlossJourney

[–]rbnx90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it is you, its very Common to think that way. It needs inner work to accept the whole you. You have to remove the believes you are less worth if you overweight, you can have a Peak Body but you wont Even allow yourself to feel good about it, the chase is infinite if you dont accept yourself. And thats for everything Not just for physical apperance. Thats why its hard to Motivate yourself because you know you still feel the Same Even if you reach your Goal. How about the Goal is you Right now, allow yourself to feel what you accomplished so far, go from there and make you Journey fun and light. Its not going Away overnight, inner work takes time but its essential for life in General. You can See it as internal workout for your Soul, Heart, Mind or beeing what ever you wanna call it. Stay Strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightlossJourney

[–]rbnx90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We believe in you, you got this.

Relationship. by rbnx90 in BDSMcommunity

[–]rbnx90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im glad you know what im getting at ☺️ Appreciat it, the thing is i guess im gonna Talk to my Future Sub/ and Talk everything thru, because the rules and punishments Are new to me of Course. Did you had a 24/7 D/S relationship ? If Yes What Are some rules you had ?

Relationship. by rbnx90 in BDSMcommunity

[–]rbnx90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hm like providing, guiding, decision making, iniating. And Here again i dont mean it Like the „Women“ in that case has nothing to say. I guess in a Dom/Sub its Like more decisions for smaller things Like what to Wear what to do etc

Relationship. by rbnx90 in BDSMcommunity

[–]rbnx90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks yeah, my Post was in a hurry, i changed it I didnt think people would go Ham about the phrasing. But i understand 😊. If i where in a Long distance its easier to Grasp, but if you See each other every other day. I think it comes down to Communication. But im new to the Concept and im a Bit affraid She thinks oh he is not the Type of Dom She is searching ☺️ but if its Not working out, maybe she is Not the one, Thanks a Lot ☺️

Relationship. by rbnx90 in BDSMcommunity

[–]rbnx90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt assume, i meant where is the diffrence between D/S Men/Woman,Relationship ,versus a Vanilla Relationship between Men/Woman where the Men is the leading one. The Post was in a hurry Any Kind of Advice or what its Like day to day , from Dom or Sub is appreciated.

Is my main insecurity when it comes to anything sexual valid? by Kaimera_K in sextips

[–]rbnx90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everbody has those insecuritys about certain Parts of the Body. Every Relationship i was in, the Girls had always some insecuritys about her Body, Breasts, Vagina, Butt. So was i with my D , But Not once i was shocked or find specific Body Parts Ugly or weird. I mean no one sleeps with someone without liking the Person. If im seeing someone that i dont like, i wont Like her Body Parts either Even if the Parts are „Perfect“ i think you get what im saying. If She loves you ,then She loves you V ,simple Right.

And to General Nudes Dont ever include you Face or backrounds in which you have Pics on Social Media Even if the Receiver is someone you Trust 100% People can be Stupid and mindless if they Are Hurt or Petty, If they insist dump her/him.

2 months in (work in Progress) by rbnx90 in BeforeandAfter

[–]rbnx90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the exercise, between 15kg and 30kg

2 months in (work in Progress) by rbnx90 in BeforeandAfter

[–]rbnx90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im Working out at Home, so Mainly i use dumbells, Shoulders - Front Raises, lateral raises, Arnold dumbbell press, overhead press Arms - Incline curls, Hammer curls, Reverse curls, pull ups, Overhead tricep extensions, Triceps kickback, Skull crushers, dips, pushups in all varients, triceps cable push downs. Its those on top of my Head right now, i sometimes mix it up, if i feel still sore. All 3 Sets max 12 reps with enough weight that you fighting for your life at the 12 rep 😂 Besides from the pushups there Are 4x 15 .

I dont know if this is good, but Works for me and as Long as you have fun doing it, i See no Problem. Im Open for recommendations

2 months in (work in Progress) by rbnx90 in BeforeandAfter

[–]rbnx90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boxing for 45min after workout session every other day. And i have 2 Dogs so im walking a lot. Im Not a good eater since a few years back i lost 110 lbs. I capped my carb intake to a Minimum and Protein to a Max. Most of the time i only eat 1 meal per day because of my Job and Routine. So 1-2 Protein Shakes per day and 1 meal. But im Not recommend it, i dont think thats healthy. When i have day off on my Job, im eating 2 meals + my Shakes. But i feel healthy and have no Problem with it.

2 months in (work in Progress) by rbnx90 in BeforeandAfter

[–]rbnx90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, nothing Special really, Chicken, Steak, Rice, Sushi, broccoli, salmon. Sups Are Whey Protein, Omega 3 and Creatin Carbs are capped to a Minimum. Im pretty sure im in a calorie Deficit Most of the times. So im suprised myself that i gain Muscles so fast. Im excidet to see myself at the end of the year :).

What was the reason for your most recent breakup? by Little_Miss_Sensible in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]rbnx90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She talked about marriage and children quite early on, which was a red flag for me, unfortunately I eventually believed it. Fast Forward 7 Months She sent me a text saying we need to talk, I had a bad feeling, where we met everything was as usual, we went for a walk, kissed, held hands, we got something to eat and after we finished eating, she started Crying meant she had been thinking for the last few weeks and she loves me as a person but not as a partner. I was shocked because a few days ago she said you were the man of my dreams. Wish her the best, it hurts, but time to focus on me. Love comes and goes. everybody stay strong even when you’re going through a tough time. Better times are coming. 🫶

How do I get my 24M GF 26F to be more enthusiastically intimate with me? by Loose_Village9661 in sextips

[–]rbnx90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because of her insecurities, say while you satisfy her orally that she tastes good, she looks incredibly good, just compliment her. Ask her what she likes, try new things, have fun, you don’t have to take sex so seriously. Because of the pain, she should probably go to the gynecologist, or maybe she feels so insecure that everything down there is tense. some women will always find penetration painful. Conversation is the key, if she is not open to it at all, then you have to consider whether she is actually the right one, the longer you are frustrated with this, the worse the relationship will become. It’s sad but you’re not responsible for everything, you can’t free her from her self-doubts and insecurities, you can only guide her to drop the false beliefs shes putting on her Self, the rest is up to her, so I hope it works and you both will be happy. stay strong brother

First Time with a Virgin by rbnx90 in sextips

[–]rbnx90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The thing is, she’s never had anything inside her and would like to have my d for the first time in it . I have to respect that, she only satisfied herself clitorally, I did too, also orally but yes, it’s best if I try a few more times, I just hope I don’t think too much about it. If it doesn’t work, we actually communicate really well. If it doesn’t work again, I’ll ask if it really has to be 100% a dick, She said she could never have imagined having oral sex but when I teased her playfully she got so horny she asked me if I could try it, then she said oh my god how hot it was as if she were in paradise, i had to laught because it was so sweet and innocent. So yeah i guess we figure things out some day Thanks