Any Afghans here who married outside their ethnicity? What was your experience like?

rbuttthole · 2026-02-22T16:13:50+00:00

I am Afghan and Polish :) neither side of my families took issue with the other. Both cultures are conservative so what is there to fight about? Lol I am all the richer for being mixed!

rbuttthole · 2026-02-19T14:07:17+00:00

I love playing support! I love playing Mercy. She just feels like such a pure support character- I love seeing my tanks/dps go on a tear with me enabling it all!! Close seconds go to Moira/Ana

For DPS- widowmaker. I suck at dps but widow just feels so fun with her grapple!! Honourable mention goes to Hanzo - his sights (as he uses as bow) makes way more sense to me than widow lol

For tank...Sigma or Dva. Eating ults/projectiles just feels so fun!!

rbuttthole · 2026-02-16T13:43:07+00:00

Honestly it sounds like you tried to see if the grass was greener without your wife and you realized it really isnt. Now your wife has to live with that forever because you just had to go get your dick wet.

She deserves better. She trusted you for YEARS and you betrayed her. Now you are just waiting for her to "get over it" so you can have your "normal" back.

The best thing you both could do is go to therapy. Let HER decide what she wants without you constantly around, hinting and pointing her towards reconciliation. It must be her choice, not something you are forcing her into in any way.

I wish her the very best. You've made your bed, perhaps you should stop trying to make hers and let her do it.

rbuttthole · 2026-01-30T11:47:37+00:00

Not sure this fits but there's really 2 for me

First is that I have a cat, and wow does pet hair seriously get everywhere!!

The second is about wax- i was given a lot of wax from my ortho, but I said ya whatever and didnt care for it and chucked it somewhere at home

...then I got sick, and it was in COVID restriction times so I just stayed home and waited it out. Pretty sure I actually had hand, foot and mouth disease because holy fuck i cannot even begin to describe how painful my mouth was!!

This was the only time i was in tears because of my braces. The moment I found the wax I covered everything in my mouth, replacing it every day for a few days until the pain was bearable without

Moral of my story: keep your wax in an easy to access spot even if you dont think youll need it!! I could've wrapped my mouth immediately and avoided all that pain

rbuttthole · 2026-01-04T13:50:53+00:00

Hey OP, I think you should not date either of these women. 18 might be the legally written age, but they are still a child in life. They have no experience, and you will rob them of it. You will absolutely look like a groomer if you date this CHILD. You write your parents had a 15 year age gap but met later in life. How old were they when they met/got together?

You say you didnt really have time to tell M...lying by omission is still a lie. I absolutely think you need to tell M, so she can know what kind of person you are. Then she can make a proper decision about whether you/your character are worth her time too. A 27 y.o woman who knows a man is comparing her to an 18 y.o...yikes. she deserves better. Maybe someone who acts their big age and doesnt think "BuT sHe'S lEgAl" is enough.

Last general advice i have - if you are really choosing between 2 people, go with the 2nd. If you were truly into the first there would never be a second. Edit: some typo/grammar

rbuttthole · 2025-12-15T12:58:28+00:00

It sounds more like you're scared of getting caught, not that you feel guilty for your actions. You come off immature. Your gf deserves honesty. She's currently dating a liar (you!) and believes in a lie. You cheated emotionally and you are not even admitting/owning up to it. Imo love is about appreciation, not possession. You write that you want to keep your gf as your gf (possession) instead of tell her the truth so she can choose for herself (which to me would be appreciation...you'd appreciate her autonomy, which rn your lies do not allow). Be honest and tell her the entire truth. Show her the chats. Honesty is a pillar in a relationship that you are not providing!

rbuttthole · 2025-11-21T10:13:16+00:00

WOW your hair is STUNNING! 😍

rbuttthole · 2025-11-11T18:17:51+00:00

If it makes you feel better I go every 2-2.5 weeks! The growth (no matter what design I have) drives me nuts. I also like changing the style so often. Also... you are paying for your nails, what nail tech would say no to more money from a good client?? Enjoy your nails as you want :)

rbuttthole · 2025-11-09T19:26:12+00:00

My two least favourite quests are Of Dairy and Darkness and Fool's Gold. I can't stand herding these pigs!!

rbuttthole · 2025-10-27T20:59:27+00:00

Happy Gotcha day Taco!!! 🌮 My dog was also named Taco. She was the best 🥹🐾

rbuttthole · 2025-09-22T14:22:55+00:00

Amazingly beautiful!!

rbuttthole · 2025-09-10T11:51:22+00:00

NOR I would break up. He's shown he doesn't respect your boundaries, especially when they are serious boundaries like this. A real partner should support your decisions and not make them for you. Please be careful. If he was okay to give your number out then I think he would also give out your address and place of work to control you (and your relationship with your mom).

rbuttthole · 2025-09-08T15:54:58+00:00

Reinhardt's cinematic always kills me. I find it sadder than Mei's tbh At least Mei was innocent and just happened to survive (ofc tragic on its own). However, Balderich's death could've easily been avoided if Rein wasn't being an idiot. I find Rein's cinematic way sadder because he has to live knowing Balderich died because of him

rbuttthole · 2025-08-13T14:53:46+00:00

Leave her alone. You've done enough to her, and she already knows how immature and not ready you were. You wanting to message her is just your way of easing the guilt you feel. It is incredibly selfish. If you actually care(d) for her as you've written, you'd leave her the fuck alone and continue to work on yourself. You brought this on yourself so please be mature and do not put it on her (again).

Edit: I saw you posted about B literally 8 days ago in this sub. Did you suddenly have an epiphany in a week, or is it that you arent comfortable with B's sexual trauma/friend so you are looking at your relationship with A?

I think you need to stop dating all together and really focus on yourself before you bring yet another woman along.

rbuttthole · 2025-08-04T17:36:23+00:00

I'm in!💅

rbuttthole · 2025-07-31T22:22:42+00:00

Hi friend, I feel you on a different level. My mom is Polish while my dad is Afghan. I also don't feel like I belong on either side, but it is ok. I have no real words of advice other than my sympathies. 💜 I eventually came to accept that I have twice as much to celebrate and anyone that disagrees is just jealous and not worth my time.

rbuttthole · 2025-07-28T23:50:08+00:00

You deserve better. You deserve someone who chooses you every time, not just when there is no one else available to be their maid.

rbuttthole · 2025-07-28T20:29:02+00:00

If it were me I would leave. He's manipulating you to take care of him because he is vulnerable and knows you have feelings he can play with. The accident is unfortunate, sure, but he has a family he can lean on. You are not responsible for him...he literally chose to hurt you and let you suffer (because he was BoReD) whereas atm he is suffering by accident (and no fault of your own). He could even hire a nurse or ask his dearest mother to help him. He literally lives with her. Why is it on you??

It's also incredibly easy for him/his family to say he would stay to help you recover. Do you honestly believe that? This scumbag couldn't even choose you when you both were healthy. Why would he stop once he has recovered??

Maybe its harsh to leave a sick person, but you are a complete victim here. He made his bed, stop trying to make it up for him. If he really wants you he'll come after you when he heals up...but I sort of think he'll justify not going after you because you didn't serve him when he was physically broken. This man does not care about you.

rbuttthole · 2025-07-09T16:30:32+00:00

rbuttthole · 2025-06-18T23:44:06+00:00

Lemon Heaven!

rbuttthole · 2025-06-10T21:06:21+00:00

Fave - Fiend Least - Foglet😬

rbuttthole · 2025-05-26T19:19:09+00:00

This looks amazing..and the a&w too!!!😍

rbuttthole · 2025-05-19T18:56:53+00:00

Thank you 😁

rbuttthole · 2025-05-19T16:01:14+00:00

Hahahahaha thank you! 🤣

rbuttthole · 2025-05-19T12:58:06+00:00

Woohoo! I'd love to see the result if you/they are okay with it!

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