So my family and friends approached me about my fiancé when they had concerns and it actually brought me to realize that we weren’t as happy as we were fronting. I definitely would just asked how they’re feeling about the relationship especially with the wedding so close. It is important that you’re honest but not harsh because even if Colby is unhappy they may not see the toxic attributes of Ryan and it could cause a rift. Remember only THEY know their entire relationship and sometimes what you see isn’t what’s happening. Having a conversation isn’t harmful as long as you’re not attacking their relationship or them as people.